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The PNM in that other thread had a whole lot of other issues. I think the mods deleted it because it got ugly.
I am still trying to wrap my mind around someone wearing a blatant and revered symbol of another religion as some sort of secret message during recruitment. I can understand the fear of being dropped because a group assumes you will want a specific house when you want to keep an open mind, but it seems so extreme to do something like this. I'm not saying it doesn't happen ever (because, let's face it, a lot of weird stuff happens during recruitment!), but I have never heard it mentioned in any recruitment conversations I have had with members of my GLO and my friends in other sororities.
I would really have to second guess a new sister's honesty about everything if she's started out a lifetime relationship doing something like that. I mean, what does she say? "Hey, y'all, I know I was wearing a cross during recruitment, but guess what? Now that I'm a new member, I can tell you I really am Jewish and just faked being Christian so you wouldn't assume I wanted to go XYZ. So I can't go out tonight because it's Shabbat." I just can't fathom it.
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