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Honestly, religiously speaking I dont think its anymore wrong than all the other sins in the world but I am waiting (hopefully) until I get married. To me its more of the fact that its such a huge irreversible step and you cant go back from it. I think females especially are so much more bound to males after sex that maybe its best if more of us did wait. But as far as the physical aspect, I dont understand why people say they dont want to wait until they are married to find out if they are sexually compatible with their partner. I mean if you are in love with this person and you want to marry them, why wouldnt you be compatible with them. I mean if you are even attacted to someone and that attraction leads to something physical, don't you know before hand as in foreplay if the sex would be good. And if it isnt dont you love the person enough to work with them, teach them or something. But then again maybe I am living in a fantasy world where you know you have to LOVE the person to marry them, we all know thats not always the case, sadly. I still think sex is or at least should be a small part of a marriage. At least last then 50%. If all you have is sex, I mean soon or later thats going to get boring or you going to get old and please dont tell me about all people having "relations" because thats quite scarey,lol.
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