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Originally Posted by Zeta13Girl
A good idea would be to talk to your sisters who went through formal this past year. Ask them what they liked and didn't like about the pref ceremony. You can also ask them what they liked about some of the other prefs they went to as well. This will definitely be a help because unlike us they have been through your ceremony and you don't want to take something out that the PNMs liked.
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Very good advice!
There is a VERY thin line at Pref Parties - you want to pull on the PNMs' heartstrings, but in a way they'll understand. If you have a few sisters tell of sisterhood moments, they can't be private jokes, or too morbid. If it's too emotional, you'll lose the ones who can't handle a lot of crying. If nobody cries at all, you lost them. Maybe somebody else can explain that even better.