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Originally Posted by TSteven
While the W&L guy never confirmed if he was a member of one, he did say that it was his understanding that some of the W&L secret societies included students from VMI. The VMI guy claimed to not know anything about any secret societies. Have you heard anything along those lines? Not that it might matter, but this would have been back when both W&L and VMI were all male.
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I can't say I do know anything about VMI cadets being members of W&L secret societies. I know that VMI cadets would be in big trouble if they got found out to be in a secret society (that's the reason why Sigma Nu and ATO, who were both founded at VMI, will probably never have chapters there again). So it's possible but I'm sure it's really underground if that's the case. I mean I'm no expert on W&L secret societies by any means.
My general impression is that coeducation eventually harmed relations between VMI guys and W&L men. If you read the whole slide presentation about the minks thing, you see that VMI and W&L have been competing for women for like ages. And I think there's a lot of tension now over who gets to date W&L women. The competition is even more intense now as a lot of the women's colleges become co-ed or change culturally, plus W&L women are right there.
The first few years of co-education the W&L fraternities were dead set on "boycotting" dating W&L women, but that didn't last for very long.

Especially since all the SMART women in the region quit going to the women's colleges and starting going to UVA and W&L. (And I say this having a mom as an alum of a women's college about 45 minutes north of W&L - even she admits that her school has changed completely academically and culturally since she was there.) A lot of the women who are the more "traditional" student types for Hollins, Sweetbriar, etc., just go to Hampden-Sydney or UVA... partially I think because W&L women are so hostile to them.
There are some VMI guys that hang out at W&L fraternities and don't get mocked for it/asked to leave by brothers... Usually guys the W&L people know from high school. One of my sorority sisters dated (and is actually about to marry now) a VMI cadet who went to Woodberry Forest with a bunch of W&L guys and he was welcome pretty much everywhere. But that was more due to cultural reasons than anything else.