Broke Off Engagement?

[KSUViolet06]

This has never happened to me personally, but I have friends that have postponed wedding dates because one of them had cold feet.

I think that if someone is having cold feet, they need to listen to that and really sit down and think about why. Is it nervousnes about the day itself? Or is it something more serious like "I'm not sure I want to spend the rest of my life with this person?"

It's okay to be nervous about the wedding day (i.e. I'm worried something will go wrong with the venue), but it's another thing to be unsure about the person you're marrying or your relationship.

Really sit down and think about whether it is one or the other.

If it turns out to be second thoughts about the person or the relationship, don't let the wedding itself get in the way of you having a conversation with the fiance about your feeelings. Don't feel like it's too late to push things back. You don't want to be sitting alone days before the wedding feeling trapped or unsure just because you didn't want to postpone the plans.

If your fiance loves you, he will understand and have no problem with possibly getting married later if it means you are happier together. If you talk to him about how you feel and he blows up on you, then maybe you need to re-evaluate spending your life with him.