Is sex overrated?

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Originally Posted by MissBoggzz

HmmMmm well Let's see here's a little bit about my life. I'm not a virgin, I was with my ex boyfriend for a while and we ended up having sex. Then shortly afterwards I was raped, and petrified of having sex, so i stopped having sex with my boyfriend and he broke up with me. Now I'm with someone who is a virgin and I am soooo happy because I know he's not pressuring me anytime soon until we both feel comfortable. In todays society there are so many young people wasting their lives on sexual activity. I know a 14 year old girl who's pregnant. I know a lot of people who are very promiscuous and who have several diseases. I'm glad that I'm not one of those people. If you want to wait for the right person and right time then go for it. If you want to be promiscuous and "have fun" just be safe lol. But in all honesty do what you want and don't let anyone pressure you to do something you don't want to do.

I'm sorry that happened to you and I hope you're seeking counseling to deal with the issues you have now regarding sex after rape. It will never go away unless you deal with it.