So i have a question.....

[brownsugardivah]

@ Sweet Gem. I think another reason why sororities have such an issue with auxilaries is because of the persona that certain auxis or members in that carry around. Ive seen some carry around that attitude like "Im the shit" coming to sorority events and being disrespectful. (from what Ive seen in my perspective). And in all actuality, auxilaries are just imitating sororities. If you look back in the day how sweethearts used to be they were very seldomly seen. You went on court for the frat and that was it. I really blame the fraternities for not keeping their sweethearts in check. But at the same time, I know me personally have been disrespected from sororities for no reason at all. I keep it movin. I know who Im here for. I seldomly go to greek events unless its an event for the sorority Im interested in or an Iota event. But females are catty anyway. So there is BOUND to be drama regardless. BUT I think as long as people leave stereotypes at home and just respect and be polite to each other as collegiate women FIRST I dont think there will be problems. BUT theres bound to be anyway.....

[DSTCHAOS]

Originally Posted by brownsugardivah

But females are catty anyway. So there is BOUND to be drama regardless.

When women spread this nonsense, it makes it hard to blame men for spreading this nonsense. Only catty females are catty.

Whatever drama that you've experienced is undergraduate drama that doesn't even exist on every campus.

Good luck with the sorority that you're interested in, though. You seem smart enough not to make the common sweetheart mistake of coming to interest meetings snapping your fingers, talking about how you've already gotten the sisterhood/sorority experience and know about Greekdom because of the frat you help.

[rhoyaltempest]

Originally Posted by DSTCHAOS

When women spread this nonsense, it makes it hard to blame men for spreading this nonsense. Only catty females are catty.

Whatever drama that you've experienced is undergraduate drama that doesn't even exist on every campus.

Good luck with the sorority that you're interested in, though. You seem smart enough not to make the common sweetheart mistake of coming to interest meetings snapping your fingers, talking about how you've already gotten the sisterhood/sorority experience and know about Greekdom because of the frat you help.

I'd like to co-sign. This is what makes some sorority members disrespect auxillary members from the door without even knowing them (not that it's right).

[rhoyaltempest]

Originally Posted by DSTCHAOS

When women spread this nonsense, it makes it hard to blame men for spreading this nonsense. Only catty females are catty.

Whatever drama that you've experienced is undergraduate drama that doesn't even exist on every campus.

Good luck with the sorority that you're interested in, though. You seem smart enough not to make the common sweetheart mistake of coming to interest meetings snapping your fingers, talking about how you've already gotten the sisterhood/sorority experience and know about Greekdom because of the frat you help.

I'll co-sign here too. Not all women are catty and when girls mature and truly become women, the cattiness decreases or disappears. When we learn to love ourselves and not be so insecure, our relationships get better. For many women, it takes them maturing and coming into their own for them to get it and sadly some never do but on the undergrad level, you can't really expect most of them to because they are still very young.