questions about pinning?

[brownsugakdphi]

Well maybe i'm really new to hearing about this pinning thing/laveleiring thing... whatever? but why should you ever give your letters to someone else... in my sorority, our letters mean the world to us, and we are proud that our secrets are our own and not something we share with other people. our letters represent the hard work,the tears, joys, and struggles that we had to go through... why would i want to share those feelings with someone who has never been through what i have been through. Yes, you may love someone deeply. But, before that you should love yourself. In loving myself, there are some things that I can keep to myself as something I only hold, and that is something special.... Although this may be a long tradition within some of your organizations, perhaps you would like to think about what you are truly saying about yourself when you hand your letters/symbols over to someone else....
just a point of view, no offense......