LB's/Dating/Frat Hoes

[thru_da_wire]

I honestly feel you on that...but like you said "Most people cannot fathom the fact that when you have sex your body makes a promise even if you don't make one verbally." That is why I ask about how many was in her past. I have always felt that sex was a unlike any other intimate act that a human being can perform...their were times when I really developed deep feeling for a couple of past females, but the high numbers straight CRUSHED me...

[SummerChild]

Frat,

How come every time I come to the Alpha Phi Alpha message board I have to see this degrading link title that refers to women as "hoes"?

I feel like this is not aligned with what I think of when I think of Alpha men.

Moderators, ya'll can't clean up that title to show a little more respect for women?

SC

[Phrozen1ne]

Originally Posted by SummerChild

Frat,

How come every time I come to the Alpha Phi Alpha message board I have to see this degrading link title that refers to women as "hoes"?

I feel like this is not aligned with what I think of when I think of Alpha men.

Moderators, ya'll can't clean up that title to show a little more respect for women?

SC

Although this thread is on our message board, it was actually started by a woman. Also the last time I checked hoe and woman don't belong together.

[PrettyBoy]

Originally Posted by Phrozen1ne

Also the last time I checked hoe and woman don't belong together.

I agree. Men who refer to themselves as "players" are hoes too.

[SummerChild]

Frat,

I am surprised that it was started by a woman. But then again, in some ways, I unfortunately am not as many have become desensitized to this as well.

Ok, so if that term and the term "woman" don't belong together. What are we saying by using it? So now it's ok to disrespect some women? Is that what we are teaching the next generation?

SC

Originally Posted by Phrozen1ne

Although this thread is on our message board, it was actually started by a woman. Also the last time I checked hoe and woman don't belong together.

[DSTCHAOS]

Originally Posted by SummerChild

What are we saying by using it?

That there are hoes.

Feminism doesn't remove the hoe label. Feminism means that the hoe label should be used for males and females, who fit whatever subjective criteria there is, equally.

Now if the person is a "sex worker" then he or she has rights and a labor union that backs them (no pun intended). That's a profession whereas being a HOE is not.

[PrettyBoy]

Originally Posted by thru_da_wire

their were times when I really developed deep feeling for a couple of past females, but the high numbers straight CRUSHED me...

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