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Old 03-26-2008, 06:16 PM
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After reading every singe post on here, every one makes sense to me. But at the same time, what ultimately matters is your self-control, and I think that was mentioned beforehand.
My ships and I would NEVER pass a chick around, much less a girl who is the object of our affections, although I do have to agree that temptation is a bitch and that sometimes it's hard in a college setting to be "faithful."
Sometimes, people cannot fathom the true meaning of love. Most people cannot fathom the fact that when you have sex your body makes a promise even if you don't make one verbally. Each time you open your legs/slip yourself inside someone you create soul ties that cannot be broken. At least this is how I feel.

Sex in our current society is so disposable it's ridiculous. Now, don't get me wrong, I'm not holier than thou at all. I do, and have done some pretty despicable things. None that I regret, but some that I do think could have been handled better. Respect for oneself and as every brother in the forum was taught on that chained and beaten path to Alpha was taught, respect for womanhood is key.

Excuse me if I'm rambling, I suck at writing things.
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Old 03-26-2008, 06:25 PM
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And also, to touch on the topic about numbers, I think if every one knew # we'd all be disgusted with our partners. Somethings are just better left unsaid, especially if you and her are in love, and you are having a successful relationship, why let something as small as the past ruin your future together?
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Old 03-31-2008, 01:34 AM
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And also, to touch on the topic about numbers, I think if every one knew # we'd all be disgusted with our partners. Somethings are just better left unsaid, especially if you and her are in love, and you are having a successful relationship, why let something as small as the past ruin your future together?
I would have a hard time spending my present and future together with a loose woman.

ETA: I wouldn't.
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Old 03-31-2008, 01:30 AM
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sometimes it's hard in a college setting to be "faithful."
No it's not. It's not hard in any setting, at least it isn't for some people.

ETA: If it's hard for him/her to be faithful in a college setting, then it would be hard for him/her to be faithful in any setting.
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