Budget issues aside, I don't think I would attend or participate in the throwing of a baby shower if I wasn't invited to the wedding. True, weddings are for close families and friends, but guess what?? So are baby showers - it shouldn't just be about casting a wide gift net, it should be about sharing in the joy of an upcoming birth -so if I wasn't close enough to you to participate or witness your wedding, I would think I would fit into that same category come baby time!! I don't think I would be salty about it but I probably wouldn't go not out of spite, but because we weren't close friends!!
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