You've been given great advice. I just want to add to follow your heart - what may have been right for your mother just may not be right for you. On the other hand, if it IS the right fit all around, you & your mother will have a wonderful bond! This from someone who was sure she was going to pledge XYZ, and fell in love with ABC!
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