I guess now that I've graduated I can post here without feeling like a jack@$$.
I didn't really intend on going through formal recruitment and I really didn't know a damn thing about it when I went. I missed the second day (house tours) because I had to be home for something (that I can't even remember). I don't dress girly ... I showed up to most of the days in jeans and a tshirt (which I'm sure made a lot of chapters dislike me). So ... I was only asked back to Sigma Kappa for pref, but I loved it there.
Our ABC tells me she remember when I preffed and says she was almost positive I wasn't going to come back ... guess when I observe too hard I look disinterested ... oops.
:shrugs: So in the end I ended up in a sorority ... and I love rocking my lavender and maroon letters