^^ I can't imagine an answer better than that one.
I can also add that if you don't feel that your fraternity's alumni involvement is robust enough for you (if it is an NIC organization), then you might want to look into other civic or fraternal organizations that might cater to your age group.
But you don't want to be known as the random fraternity dude that hangs out with other fraternity or sorority people on campus.
And.... "go when invited." If you casually meet Greeks and they WANT you to hang out with them, they'll let you know.
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