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02-06-2008, 01:29 AM
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The SHMS is absolutely hilarious. I knew the show was absolutely entertaining when my son said mama turn on Steve Harvey before you drop me off... I am most definitely hooked.
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Girl what chu doing up??? You know you need to be sleep!!! LOL 
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02-06-2008, 08:22 PM
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Today's Strawberry Letter was just so--I don't know--sad and pathethic.
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02-06-2008, 08:41 PM
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^^^
Yes, it was.
The one that had me  was the letter last week about the girl who was raped by her stepbrother and molested by her dad.
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02-06-2008, 11:31 PM
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Girl what chu doing up??? You know you need to be sleep!!! LOL  
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Girl... I was up watching out for the storm...LOL!(like an old woman)
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02-06-2008, 11:33 PM
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Today's Strawberry Letter was just so--I don't know--sad and pathethic. 
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Didn't he make you just want to find him and slap him...(or better yet take his $3,995)
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02-07-2008, 01:09 AM
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that's what his @$$ gets
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Today's Strawberry Letter was just so--I don't know--sad and pathethic. 
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The black woman in me a year ago would say that's what he gets for dating outside his race. Many black men think that if they date white or latina men, they can "get their way" easier than dealing with "the DIVAs"
However, the new redefined black woman that I am I just know those type of man isn't man enough for me....in case you didn't read it...here's the letter (sorry to post the whole thing, but if it were a link by tomorrow it would be gone)
Good Morning - Steve, Shirley & Tommy. I want to first start off by saying that you guys are an inspiration and keep up the good work. I am currently in a relationship with a woman who has somehow stripped me of my dignity as a black man. She's a mexican-american woman. I am contemplating on leaving this woman and have been for sometime. I just don't know how. I cannot gather up enough courage to do so...A little background in our relatiionship. During the early stages in our relationship - she has talked so negative about the black race stating that black people are ignorant, lazy and ugly...That I was lucky that she even gave me a chance. Because of these sterotype she has about black people I stayed in the relationship to change that myth, however in the process I've been stripped of my dignity and self-respect. She has slapped and punched me; she has called me a stupid N with the "ER" at the end; she has caused me to drop out of graduate school; she had taking control of my entire pay check only providing me with a enough money to travel to and from work; she has taken limited communication with any of my friends and family; she demand back massages every night; I moved in with her, but I don't have a key to her apt., she states that I need to earn it by "behaving"; she altered my visting schedule w/my daughter from every weekend to every other weekend; she states that the only thing my daughter should get from me is child support and nothing above and beyond that; She gives me a daily allowance of $5 from a monthly check of over $4,000 net; She gets upset over the simpliest thing and we stay up arguing until its time to go to work the next morning; she will not allow me to go to bed, if she feeling upset or angry about anything; she refuses to discuss my issues; I told her that I wanted to strengthen my relationship w/daughter and she's against it because it may take time and resource away from us; she sometime makes me leave and sleep outside in the cold as a punishment for making her upset. The last time i made her upset was when I told her I was to work on the relationship with my daughter, especially since she starts highschool next year; she takes and hide my driver's license, passport & car keys and since, I don't have the keys to her house, I cannot simply go there when she's at work. There's not a day that I wish I was dead. Steve, Shirley & Tommy: I know this relationship is not healthy, but the problem is I am afraid of her; She always make me feel like I am the problem and I think its working - whenever, I gather up enough strength to leave, I fill guilty. I need some solid advice, please give me advice how to get myself out of them. Signed: Am I a Good Man?
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02-07-2008, 08:15 AM
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He's got 1st degree b*tchassness. Bless his heart. He should have been rolled the hell out.
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02-07-2008, 08:43 AM
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He's got 1st degree b*tchassness. Bless his heart. He should have been rolled the hell out.
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Speak on it.
How he let her get away with this stuff I don't know.
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02-07-2008, 05:06 PM
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Do they do multiple Strawberry Letters each day? The one that I heard this morning was about a woman who had several abortions, was pregnant w/her 3rd child (by different men), and was trying to discover how she would know the man that God has created for her.
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02-07-2008, 11:38 PM
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Do they do multiple Strawberry Letters each day? The one that I heard this morning was about a woman who had several abortions, was pregnant w/her 3rd child (by different men), and was trying to discover how she would know the man that God has created for her.
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I think so...they just respond to it in several segments of the show... first Strawberry reads the letter... Then the "code cracker" Steve tears it apart LOL! then they all jump in and then they take callers responses.
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02-07-2008, 11:51 PM
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The black woman in me a year ago would say that's what he gets for dating outside his race. Many black men think that if they date white or latina men, they can "get their way" easier than dealing with "the DIVAs"
However, the new redefined black woman that I am I just know those type of man isn't man enough for me....in case you didn't read it...here's the letter (sorry to post the whole thing, but if it were a link by tomorrow it would be gone)
Good Morning - Steve, Shirley & Tommy. I want to first start off by saying that you guys are an inspiration and keep up the good work. I am currently in a relationship with a woman who has somehow stripped me of my dignity as a black man. She's a mexican-american woman. I am contemplating on leaving this woman and have been for sometime. I just don't know how. I cannot gather up enough courage to do so...A little background in our relatiionship. During the early stages in our relationship - she has talked so negative about the black race stating that black people are ignorant, lazy and ugly...That I was lucky that she even gave me a chance. Because of these sterotype she has about black people I stayed in the relationship to change that myth, however in the process I've been stripped of my dignity and self-respect. She has slapped and punched me; she has called me a stupid N with the "ER" at the end; she has caused me to drop out of graduate school; she had taking control of my entire pay check only providing me with a enough money to travel to and from work; she has taken limited communication with any of my friends and family; she demand back massages every night; I moved in with her, but I don't have a key to her apt., she states that I need to earn it by "behaving"; she altered my visting schedule w/my daughter from every weekend to every other weekend; she states that the only thing my daughter should get from me is child support and nothing above and beyond that; She gives me a daily allowance of $5 from a monthly check of over $4,000 net; She gets upset over the simpliest thing and we stay up arguing until its time to go to work the next morning; she will not allow me to go to bed, if she feeling upset or angry about anything; she refuses to discuss my issues; I told her that I wanted to strengthen my relationship w/daughter and she's against it because it may take time and resource away from us; she sometime makes me leave and sleep outside in the cold as a punishment for making her upset. The last time i made her upset was when I told her I was to work on the relationship with my daughter, especially since she starts highschool next year; she takes and hide my driver's license, passport & car keys and since, I don't have the keys to her house, I cannot simply go there when she's at work. There's not a day that I wish I was dead. Steve, Shirley & Tommy: I know this relationship is not healthy, but the problem is I am afraid of her; She always make me feel like I am the problem and I think its working - whenever, I gather up enough strength to leave, I fill guilty. I need some solid advice, please give me advice how to get myself out of them. Signed: Am I a Good Man?
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The Mexicans can have this clown.
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02-07-2008, 11:58 PM
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Do they do multiple Strawberry Letters each day? The one that I heard this morning was about a woman who had several abortions, was pregnant w/her 3rd child (by different men), and was trying to discover how she would know the man that God has created for her.
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very few rare occasions they do multiple letters but the one u heard today was correct...i posted about 12am so that was the letter from yesterday Feb. 6
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02-08-2008, 11:52 AM
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very few rare occasions they do multiple letters but the one u heard today was correct...i posted about 12am so that was the letter from yesterday Feb. 6
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That letter yesterday had me roooooollin'! Steve had to lay down some truth for that poor woman, any sympathy I felt toward her got shot to Hades after Stever was finished.
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02-08-2008, 12:57 PM
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He's got 1st degree b*tchassness. Bless his heart. He should have been rolled the hell out.
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EXACTLY!
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02-08-2008, 08:47 PM
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is this for real?
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He's got 1st degree b*tchassness. Bless his heart. He should have been rolled the hell out.
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You know, I just don't know what to think! I mean, I realize it was read on the show...but, I mean...just at a loss.
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