Are your dating standards too high or too low?

[DaemonSeid]

Originally Posted by Benzgirl

Pretty close to mine. Although, at my age, throw in that grown kids are ok too.
Also, they are open-minded, athletic and are not a penny-pincher

See...exactly...the kids (as I have gotten older) iI kind of bend to because most women my age range have grown kids but 20 years ago it was a deal breaker.

[PrettyBoy]

Originally Posted by DaemonSeid

See...exactly...the kids (as I have gotten older) iI kind of bend to because most women my age range have grown kids but 20 years ago it was a deal breaker.

At 1st I wouldn't get serious with a woman with kids, because I don't have any of my own, but now I would, as long as they weren't any bay bay's kids.

[DaemonSeid]

Originally Posted by PrettyBoy

At 1st I wouldn't get serious with a woman with kids, because I don't have any of my own, but now I would, as long as they weren't any bay bay's kids.

PB...it doesn't matter...your standards will change and you don't have any say so over the kids until she says you do.


I tell you what....a bad sign for me is if she introduces or lets me be aroun dher children very early on.

If our first date involves me being with her and her child....it's kind of a turn off for many reasons.

My mom didnt do that with me.

[PrettyBoy]

Originally Posted by DaemonSeid

PB...it doesn't matter...your standards will change and you don't have any say so over the kids until she says you do.


I tell you what....a bad sign for me is if she introduces or lets me be aroun dher children very early on.

If our first date involves me being with her and her child....it's kind of a turn off for many reasons.

My mom didnt do that with me.

I try to avoid the kids if I can, which is the reason why I frequently rob the cradle. I look way younger than my real age, so I use it to my advantage. Kids are definitely not a deal breaker though.

Question. Why is it a turn off if she introduces you to her Bay Bay's kids early on?