Pregnant and in a sorority

[ree-Xi]

1. Who's idea was it that it "would be best" for you drop?

2. This other sister who is pg too - was she not at the meeting? Was she telling you secretly? Being pg is not the type of thing you can keep secret very long.

3. I always suspect the stories that end so abruptly and with the OP excited for the new "chapter" in their lives.

Originally Posted by ztaberry28

hey everyone I wannna express my gratitude to all of you for your supportive emails and replies.

Tonight I stood up in front of my chapter and told them first that I was engaged and then that I am expecting. I told them how much they mean to me and how much their sisterhood has meant to me, but because Im on a 18 hour course load ( A BIG COURSELOAD!) and Im dealing with the stresses and pains of pregnancy it is best for me drop. I told them that even though I am no longer gonna be an active member than I will always consider them my sisters and I hope that they will always consider me their sister.

After I told them they all came and gave me hugs and asked to see the ring ( 3 carats fyi) and told me congrats and that no matter what I am always their sister. I chose not to go alumna because it really isnt something that interests me at this point in my life and I have much bigger things to worry about than being in a sorority. It doesnt change how I feel about my sisters and I firmly believe thats how they feel about me.

And to add a little twist to it, when i got home I had a message on my facebook from another sister in the pledge class above mine telling me she is also pregnant and got engaged! Our due dates are only 4 days apart and her and I are gonna help each other and continue our sisterhood!

Again thanks to you all and wish me luck as i start this new chapter in my life!
ZLAM

[ztaberry28]

Originally Posted by ree-Xi

1. Who's idea was it that it "would be best" for you drop?

2. This other sister who is pg too - was she not at the meeting? Was she telling you secretly? Being pg is not the type of thing you can keep secret very long.

3. I always suspect the stories that end so abruptly and with the OP excited for the new "chapter" in their lives.

1. I think it would be best for me and my fiance agrees

2. she was at the meeting but didnt want to come forward and that was our first chapter meeting of the semester so most of the girls hadnt seen each other since early december so its relatively easy to hide.

3. I am excited for the new chapter in my life because why wouldnt i be? Im having a baby and getting married, most women dream of those two things (although I always dreamed of a different circumstance!)