Spring 2008 - Q's

[violetpretty]

One of my sisters advises a chapter in her area. They have trouble getting members to pay their dues ($270 per semester if I recall correctly). She told me about one sister she confronted about dues. The member was wearing expensive jeans, standing outside her Lexus SUV, swinging her Gucci clutch around in circles when she told the advisor (alumna from my chapter) that "she can't afford $270 per semester."

[coltsgrl]

I guess i should eat more ramen noodles. I go to a Virginia school, which on campus students are known to complain about A. Housing and B how nothing is open to eat on the weekends. That's the only reason why i've eaten off campus so much in the past. We have a window of time on the weekend where three places are open and two are fast food (which makes me sick). So i need to suck it up haha.

I'm getting a job on campus so that reminds me i can save what i would spend on gas. Thanks ladies for the advice, i feel a lot better about how to handle this and who i can call for help about my questions.
thanks girls.

[ZTAPrincessGMU]

Judging by the campus environment you just described i think I have a pretty good idea of which school you go to. I could be wrong though, but here's how I have known informal recruitment to work at my campus. Each sorority has a few days of parties followed by bid day and each sorority has a different bid day, although there may be some over lap. To echo previous posters I would wait too see if a bid is received before you bring up your desire to look into another group. As far as saving for dues, going out to dinner less helps, and try best to utilize your meal plans, also if your campus has a convenience store you can stock up on things there on the weekends when less is open. Most sororities offer a payment plan, so that helps too. Best of luck

[amanda6035]

Maybe I'm just not understanding the structure, but it seems odd to me that Olivia would wait until after Sophie was done to do anything.

What if the PNMs might jump the gun and accept a bid Sophie without giving Olivia a chance because they are afraid that Sophie will be mad if they wait until after Olivia is done to accept a bid. Olivia wouldnt get a fair shot at those PNMs, or be left over with the stragglers.

Unless both organizations wait until Olivia is done to hand out bids, I dont see how this is a good idea...I see advantages and disadvantages to both sororities. Sophie either gets them all, and Olivia missed their chance because they were last, or PNMs hold out for Olivia only to possibly be disappointed and look like the prodigal child going back to accept Sophie's bid. Yick.

My campus has COB just whenever, and they offer a PNM a bid as soon as they decide they want to. They dont have a real recruitment structure for spring semester. It's just invite girls out and possibly hand out bids in the few days after that if the chapter is ready to extend them.

[33girl]

I'm guessing that they had issues with sororities holding parties at the same time and girls having to pick one or the other to attend, or depending on the campus situation there might only be certain spaces where they can be held.

[texas*princess]

Originally Posted by amanda6035

Maybe I'm just not understanding the structure, but it seems odd to me that Olivia would wait until after Sophie was done to do anything.

The sororities at my campus (back when I went there) did COR at their leisure with little or no regard to when the other groups were holding events.

This brought up an interesting question though -- I *believe* when I joined, about 5 years ago, either the campus Panhellenic or the chapter I joined had a 48 hour window to accept bids. Do other campuses have that?

[KSUViolet06]

Originally Posted by texas*princess

This brought up an interesting question though -- I *believe* when I joined, about 5 years ago, either the campus Panhellenic or the chapter I joined had a 48 hour window to accept bids. Do other campuses have that?

Some specific chapters had this rule, but it wasn't a Panhellenic-wide rule. I know that we had a rule that if a girl was extended a bid and said she "wasn't sure/needed to think about it/whatever" we gave her 48 hours to contact us and either accept or decline. If we didn't hear from her, we treated it as a decline.

[honeychile]

Originally Posted by violetpretty

One of my sisters advises a chapter in her area. They have trouble getting members to pay their dues ($270 per semester if I recall correctly). She told me about one sister she confronted about dues. The member was wearing expensive jeans, standing outside her Lexus SUV, swinging her Gucci clutch around in circles when she told the advisor (alumna from my chapter) that "she can't afford $270 per semester."

If I had a dollar for every time I've heard of this happening, I could retire comfortably today. Tells you a lot about priorities, doesn't it?

[Zillini]

Originally Posted by honeychile

If I had a dollar for every time I've heard of this happening, I could retire comfortably today. Tells you a lot about priorities, doesn't it?

Exactly! I once had a member tell me she couldn't pay her dues because she needed that money for her Spring Break trip.

[ncse88]

Originally Posted by violetpretty

One of my sisters advises a chapter in her area. They have trouble getting members to pay their dues ($270 per semester if I recall correctly). She told me about one sister she confronted about dues. The member was wearing expensive jeans, standing outside her Lexus SUV, swinging her Gucci clutch around in circles when she told the advisor (alumna from my chapter) that "she can't afford $270 per semester."

$270 per semester? I am so jealous. My dues are more than 7 times that per semester.