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Old 01-10-2008, 03:11 AM
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I'm about to use it as my siggy. Phrozen1ne you wouldn't mind would you?
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Old 01-10-2008, 10:33 PM
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Old 01-10-2008, 11:11 PM
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Someone with 20 sexual partners isn't automatically a "hoe" if most people don't know their past BUT someone with 2 sexual partners can be a "hoe" depending on how it was done and who is talking.
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While I agree with some of what you said, AKAMonet has a point, too. IMO young girls tend to form their opinions about relationships based on what they see at home between their parents. If the father is absent--either physically or emotionally--they get a skewed impression. Then society tells them that sex is the way to get a man. Oh and have a baby by him and you will have him for life.

It doesn't matter the economic or social background of the female, because it happens in middle class and upper class families, too.

And I believe it is the same for the guys. If they did not have a good role model of a relationship from their parents, then they will tend to follow in the same footsteps.

Lastly, I also blame mothers who love their sons and raise their daughters, i.e., raise them to cater to the man in the household whether it be the father or the brother.
Also the women are raising there daughters to be sexy vs. being a beautiful person and being valued for more than the exterior.

And the boys....
When I talked with my 8th grade boys, one of them said that his father doesn't mind him having sex as long as he "straps up" and isn't gay. The look that I gave him is similar to this. I guess that was his father's version of the birds and the bees. Now when he has a child he will be able to pass this info on to his son. How wonderful!
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Old 01-11-2008, 01:56 AM
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DSTCHAOS thanks for that and you make sense and I agree with a lot of what you stated. No, I don't expect a woman to tell me how many partners she's had. I usually wait until it comes out in conversation. Time always exposes people. So I just sit back and wait.

ladygreek, my parents weren't even married a year before my sister was born, and then they were married for a little over 4 years before my brother was born and over 7 years before I was born. I'm not sure how old I was before I realized they never did anything without the other, I guess as long as I can remember. Infact, my dad was still in college when my sister was born. My dad always said he puts his family 2nd to Christ and 1st before anything else. I've always seen his actions match his words.

Folks, I guess I was born 100 years too late, because 20 men is way too many. I know that's pretty much the norm in todays time, but in my eyes it's unacceptable, and if I found out that she slept with that many men, I'd have to let her go.
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Old 01-11-2008, 03:26 AM
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DSTCHAOS thanks for that and you make sense and I agree with a lot of what you stated. No, I don't expect a woman to tell me how many partners she's had. I usually wait until it comes out in conversation. Time always exposes people. So I just sit back and wait.

ladygreek, my parents weren't even married a year before my sister was born, and then they were married for a little over 4 years before my brother was born and over 7 years before I was born. I'm not sure how old I was before I realized they never did anything without the other, I guess as long as I can remember. Infact, my dad was still in college when my sister was born. My dad always said he puts his family 2nd to Christ and 1st before anything else. I've always seen his actions match his words.

Folks, I guess I was born 100 years too late, because 20 men is way too many. I know that's pretty much the norm in todays time, but in my eyes it's unacceptable, and if I found out that she slept with that many men, I'd have to let her go.
As I said, I am certainly not implying angthing about your parents, but many times children do not see the whole picture. What I am trying to point out is that you said you didn't get my statement. But trust many do.

And I am really glad that you are a one woman man.
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Old 01-11-2008, 03:50 AM
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As I said, I am certainly not implying angthing about your parents, but many times children do not see the whole picture. What I am trying to point out is that you said you didn't get my statement. But trust many do.

And I am really glad that you are a one woman man.
LG, I knew you weren't implying anything. I know you're not that kind of a person, I was just responding to the question the best way I knew how to.

I agree, children don't see the whole picture, and I'm sure I wasn't seeing the whole picture either, but from what I have seen they rarely would go places alone. If they did, they knew where to find the other one.

No, I didn't understand the statement. I guess when I see a couple that's married or in a serious relationship and one goes the opposite direction to keep from seeing what's going on at the other end of the block, to me that sounds like something dishonest is going on. I'm not sure if I was reading that right though, that's why I was saying I didn't understand what you meant by that. But again, LG I know you were not implying anything. You didn't even have to mention that to me, you know I wouldn't think that about you.
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Old 01-11-2008, 08:13 AM
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LG, I knew you weren't implying anything. I know you're not that kind of a person, I was just responding to the question the best way I knew how to.

I agree, children don't see the whole picture, and I'm sure I wasn't seeing the whole picture either, but from what I have seen they rarely would go places alone. If they did, they knew where to find the other one.

No, I didn't understand the statement. I guess when I see a couple that's married or in a serious relationship and one goes the opposite direction to keep from seeing what's going on at the other end of the block, to me that sounds like something dishonest is going on. I'm not sure if I was reading that right though, that's why I was saying I didn't understand what you meant by that. But again, LG I know you were not implying anything. You didn't even have to mention that to me, you know I wouldn't think that about you.
Oh okay, I see why I was not clear. The soror's comment was not literal.
Basically she was saying if you suspect something look the other way--it too shall pass.

Personally that wouldn't work for me, but for generations before me it did.
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Old 01-11-2008, 11:27 AM
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DSTCHAOS thanks for that and you make sense and I agree with a lot of what you stated. No, I don't expect a woman to tell me how many partners she's had. I usually wait until it comes out in conversation. Time always exposes people. So I just sit back and wait.
Don't hold your breath. Seriously. You may never know how many partners your future wife had. Whether it was 1 or 10. Hope that doesn't keep you from the alter.

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Folks, I guess I was born 100 years too late, because 20 men is way too many. I know that's pretty much the norm in todays time, but in my eyes it's unacceptable, and if I found out that she slept with that many men, I'd have to let her go.
You aren't 100 years too late. You're just not separating preference from necessity. Also, depending on where you lived 100 years ago, women and men were both being sexually loose.

You're stuck on numbers and we're not talking about numbers. We're talking about principle. Principle says that you don't dictate what's too much for the women you meet and you won't necessarily know enough about their past to judge her. Again, this principle applies whether she's been with 1 man or 20 men.

And you're also begging for a woman to lie to you. If a woman isn't so judgmental or inquisitive about your past (most women aren't, as far as I'm concerned), don't act as if she owes you her life story as if you hold the key to all that is good and Holy.
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Old 01-11-2008, 08:55 PM
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Don't hold your breath. Seriously. You may never know how many partners your future wife had. Whether it was 1 or 10. Hope that doesn't keep you from the alter.



You aren't 100 years too late. You're just not separating preference from necessity. Also, depending on where you lived 100 years ago, women and men were both being sexually loose.

You're stuck on numbers and we're not talking about numbers. We're talking about principle. Principle says that you don't dictate what's too much for the women you meet and you won't necessarily know enough about their past to judge her. Again, this principle applies whether she's been with 1 man or 20 men.

And you're also begging for a woman to lie to you. If a woman isn't so judgmental or inquisitive about your past (most women aren't, as far as I'm concerned), don't act as if she owes you her life story as if you hold the key to all that is good and Holy.
My number is low, so hers should be too, otherwise, she's got to go.

Seriously though. (well I was serious lol) DSTCHAOS you look at things a lot differently from the way I see things when it comes to relationships. I'm not saying your way is wrong, infact you're right on and your thinking is much more realistic than mine. You also have more of an open mind than I do. My problem is I've been around these same kind of women, and they all have had too many partners. When I say too many, the numbers were very high. I don't like going behind that many men. I don't think a woman or a man has to sleep with everyone he/she gets involved with. I didn't, so why should I deal with a woman who has? It's like Phrozen1ne stated about the leftovers. I think a loose woman stays loose...in most cases. DSTCHAOS, I think you're very intelligent, and very positive except for when you cause problems on the Kappa forums , but I just can't get past a woman who has a high number of sexual partners. As far her lying to me, I'm not worried about that. The truth will come out. It's just a matter of time.
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Old 01-12-2008, 01:44 PM
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My number is low, so hers should be too, otherwise, she's got to go.

Seriously though. (well I was serious lol) DSTCHAOS you look at things a lot differently from the way I see things when it comes to relationships. I'm not saying your way is wrong, infact you're right on and your thinking is much more realistic than mine. You also have more of an open mind than I do. My problem is I've been around these same kind of women, and they all have had too many partners. When I say too many, the numbers were very high. I don't like going behind that many men. I don't think a woman or a man has to sleep with everyone he/she gets involved with. I didn't, so why should I deal with a woman who has? It's like Phrozen1ne stated about the leftovers. I think a loose woman stays loose...in most cases. DSTCHAOS, I think you're very intelligent, and very positive except for when you cause problems on the Kappa forums , but I just can't get past a woman who has a high number of sexual partners. As far her lying to me, I'm not worried about that. The truth will come out. It's just a matter of time.
Cool.

And your "low" could be someone else's "too high." But it will all work out for you. Good luck.
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