LB's/Dating/Frat Hoes

[PrettyBoy]

Originally Posted by Namaste27

I don't think it has anything to do with the organization- that's just a stereotype. It's like saying all AKAs are pretty... oh sorry, can't use that. Anyhoo, what I'm trying to say is boys will be boys.

What do you mean by "boys will be boys?" The joker she's describing is a low down cheat. Not all men are like that. I agree with you about the glo part though. When I read the OP post, I just looked at the fact that she's referring to a low down man who can't keep his pecker in his draws, and a trifling woman who can't keep her panties from dragging the ground. That's how I read it. Basically two animals in heat. A lot of these trifling a$$ men spread their seeds around like water falling from a water fall. Then on top of that, after they get the kitty kat then they all of a sudden disappear once they find out the woman is pregnant. Trifling no good jokers. I have no respect for these spineless POS at all.

[Phrozen1ne]

Originally Posted by PrettyBoy

What do you mean by "boys will be boys?" The joker she's describing is a low down cheat. Not all men are like that. I agree with you about the glo part though. When I read the OP post, I just looked at the fact that she's referring to a low down man who can't keep his pecker in his draws, and a trifling woman who can't keep her panties from dragging the ground. That's how I read it. Basically two animals in heat. A lot of these trifling a$$ men spread their seeds around like water falling from a water fall. Then on top of that, after they get the kitty kat then they all of a sudden disappear once they find out the woman is pregnant. Trifling no good jokers. I have no respect for these spineless POS at all.

Well said! It has nothing to do with whether your a man or a woman. Is all about having morals, values, and exercising self-restraint.

[PrettyBoy]

Originally Posted by Phrozen1ne

Well said! It has nothing to do with whether your a man or a woman. Is all about having morals, values, and exercising self-restraint.

Exactly!

Good to see another brother on here with morals.

[jon1856]

Originally Posted by Phrozen1ne

Well said! It has nothing to do with whether your a man or a woman. Is all about having morals, values, and exercising self-restraint.

Back in the day, I can NOT recall any of my Brothers even thinking about picking up another's GF; while they were still actively dating each other.

That said, however, I do recall a few "ladies" (all members of GLOs) that while not dating anyone went through several Brothers in my house and several others.
Odd thing about this was that one of them had a younger brother who went through rush and became a Brother!

And we did have two "silver tongued devils" who seemed to be in competition with each other.

[PrettyBoy]

Originally Posted by jon1856

Back in the day, I can NOT recall any of my Brothers even thinking about picking up another's GF; while they were still actively dating each other.

That said, however, I do recall a few "ladies" (all members of GLOs) that while not dating anyone went through several Brothers in my house and several others.
Odd thing about this was that one of them had a younger brother who went through rush and became a Brother!

And we did have two "silver tongued devils" who seemed to be in competition with each other.

When I was in undergrad, if a woman told me that she knew any of my fraternity brothers on a personal level, I wouldn't give her the time a day. Even now I wouldn't, if a woman told me she knew a fraternity brother on a personal level, because 9 times out of 10 he slept with her.

Going through a whole house, I just can't understand. We had women that did that mess too. How can a woman sleep with that many men and then still have respect for herself after the fact, or expect other people to have respect for her?

[Phrozen1ne]

The title of this thread is wrong.....dating and hoes don't belong in the same sentence.

[PrettyBoy]

Originally Posted by Phrozen1ne

The title of this thread is wrong.....dating and hoes don't belong in the same sentence.

LMAO! True, but a hoe will usually lie and say she's a good woman, when she ain't nothin' but a trifling trick.

[DSTCHAOS]

This convo comes up from time to time off the internet and not just among Greeks:

I'm not a frequent clubber but I believe that good people can be met at certain types of "club events." That's because EVERYONE thinks they're the only good person in the club. But if YOU'RE in the club, even for that one visit, why can't other good people be in the club?

Lastly, outside of the "fraternity superfreak" context, I think that people gossip too much about what other people are doing. And men often exaggerate who they've been with and the context in which they've been with people. Sometimes just to brag and share notes and sometimes they're bitter that a woman doesn't want them so they want to make sure no other man wants her. So when I see women labeled as "hoes" (which happens far too often while men with many sexual partners are considered "just men"--I see that PrettyBoy doesn't live by that double standard), I take it with a grain of salt. I use the term "hoe" to refer to men and women who are careless with their sexuality and find some way to make it everyone's business. Not just because they dealt with the wrong person who ran his or her mouth. It's subjective and isn't only based on number of sexual partners, especially since no one has to tell you how many people they've been with when they get with you. And if they refuse to tell you, it isn't safe to assume they've been with a lot of people, it's just not your business so stop guessing.

Someone with 20 sexual partners isn't automatically a "hoe" if most people don't know their past BUT someone with 2 sexual partners can be a "hoe" depending on how it was done and who is talking. This doesn't mean that it's acceptable to sleep with entire groups of people (like men who sleep with sorority chapters) or rack up more mileage points than a frequent flyer.