Wow, this thing is getting heated, I'm sure vtgreekalum is glad he waded in here! (btw, Chris, my take from hanging out here for a few months is that greek life today is still pretty much the way it was when we were younger, the kids today just have lots more hoops to jump through with risk management and they can communicate a lot faster and more efficiently than we could with all their gadgets and whatnot... otherwise, normal societal differences between "then" and "now" may translate into your son/daughters having a very similar or very different experience from you, depending on their campus)
Benz, I think you need to throw up a LOLcat and bug on outta here!