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Originally posted by twinstars
Maybe I'm unusual for a girl, but I sort of do feel that way. Even if I met a great guy tomorrow, I would still feel like I'm way too young to be entirely finished dating around and experiencing different types of guys. I think I SHOULD get some more sexual experience before I settle down with one guy forever. Maybe that would change if I met "the one," but the thought of settling down without living a little first is really scary.
I know a lot of guys my age (21) feel the same way, even to a greater extent.
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I agree with you. I can't imagine my first experience (almost 19 yrs old at the time) being my ONLY experience. I can't imagine giving up so many of the experiences I've had.
Only now, at 32, having dated A LOT can I say if I met THE ONE tomorrow, I may not be ready to get married, but I am ready to be monogamous to him and only him. I feel I've done and experienced enough to know that when I meet him, I will KNOW this is something special.
If I'd gone w/ my first, it would've been a hormonal thing, NOT a RIGHT thing.
We each will do what is comfy for us, when it is right for us. I respect people's right to wait, just as they should respect mine not to. I am 32 and single, and there's no way in hell I would wish to still be a virgin at my age-- GIVE up all the fun I've had? Not a chance in hell I'd do that! hee hee
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