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Old 12-07-2007, 11:09 PM
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I'm curious. Did all of your female relatives go to the same school or did they just happen to go to schools with the legacy chapter?
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Old 12-08-2007, 12:57 AM
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I'm curious. Did all of your female relatives go to the same school or did they just happen to go to schools with the legacy chapter?
My mom and all of her sisters went to the same big southern school, as well as some of her cousins. I'm actually not sure about the other ones to tell you the truth lol. I'm kinda glad that my school doesn't have this sorority. I think there would be so much pressure on me to join that one sorority, being such a legacy to it. And I feel like all of the other sororities would cut me, simply because they think I will join my legacy sorority.

Ok so going back to my story... (this from memory/what I wrote down)
Tonight we had a convocation. All of the rho gammas did their little dance thing and we were assigned to our rush group. We did a lot of those "get to know each other" games. The girls in my group seemed cool. My rho gammas were really nice and helpful. Tomorrow I go to 5 houses..but I won't find out which ones until first thing tomorrow morning. I remember that part being frustrating.. I wanted to know where I was going the next day!
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Old 12-08-2007, 12:27 PM
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Ok so on day 1 we went to five sororities. I went to gingerbread, stocking, lights, christmas tree and presents.

Gingerbread: This was my first house of the day, and even though the rho gammas warned us it would be loud, I wasn't thinking it would be THIS loud! WOW these girls had a lot of energy. They were jumping up and down so much that a picture fell off of their wall haha. So the first girl I was paired with was okay, the first thing she said was "tell me about yourself", so I did..hopefully I didn't talk too much. Then she asked me if my mom had been in a sorority, and so I told her she was in xyz sorority, and since we don't have it on our campus, she got really confused and asked if it was a real sorority umm duh...Sorry but that gave me a bad taste in my mouth. If I'm invited back hopefully I'll meet some other girls.

Lights: The girl I was paired with was really sweet. She was super easy to talk to and we got along great. However, when it came time to do the cheers, they weren't loud at all. This made me feel like they weren't excited about their sorority or us being there. In my book I made the comment "Girls were nice individually but as a whole they lacked enthusiam".. if that makes any sense.

Stocking: I came in with some "prior knowledge" about this house. They were small and the girl I was paired with was hard to talk to. I actually wrote in my book that "she had something stuck between her 2 front teeth.." I know.. I'm horrible and superficial.. but I always notice things like that. It was hard for me to concentrate on what she was saying because of it. Nice girls, but not for me.

Christmas tree: The first thing the girl I was paired with told me that they had a house dog. Not that I don't like dogs, but I'm allergic and don't like them living inside. So the whole time all we talked about was dogs. This girl was seirously obsessed with dogs lol. The next girl I was paired with was really sweet, and didn't talk about dogs, which was nice. These girls are nice, but looking at it now, there's no way I would fit in.

Presents: This was a house that I had heard nothing about. I'll be honest.. their entrance creeped me out a bit. But it was nice. The girl I was paired with kept telling me how real the girls are and how everyone is friends with everyone. She kept emphasizing that they were real girls and not fake. She must have said it 10 times.. ok already. She was sweet though. This house seemed cool, I would like to go back and meet some more girls.

Ok so thats the end of day 1..I'm not trying to be mean in these, just honest. I'm just putting what I wrote down in my booklet. Looking back on it now, some of the things I said were so mean and superficial...oh well.
-Paige

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Old 12-08-2007, 03:04 PM
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Then she asked me if my mom had been in a sorority, and so I told her she was in xyz sorority, and since we don't have it on our campus, she got really confused and asked if it was a real sorority umm duh...Sorry but that gave me a bad taste in my mouth. If I'm invited back hopefully I'll meet some other girls.

Ack, I hate hearing that (like from my roommate who went to undergrad in a different part of the country). Although I'm guessing by your description of XYZ, it's probably a pretty well known org overall.

Thanks so much for sharing your story...but does every day really have to be a different day of rush? I'm studying for finals now and could totally use a distraction???
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Old 12-08-2007, 03:41 PM
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Stocking: I actually wrote in my book that "she had something stuck between her 2 front teeth.." I know.. I'm horrible and superficial.. but I always notice things like that. It was hard for me to concentrate on what she was saying because of it.

LOL!
This happened to me in a meeting this week and I felt the same way. I couldn't concentrate on what was said.
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Old 12-08-2007, 04:07 PM
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i laughed when i read that you became fixated with the thing stuck in the girls teeth. i would have done that too. i just can't understand how none of her sisters would have told her-this was not the first party and you would think they were interacting with each other between parties.

i'm ready for day 2!
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Old 12-08-2007, 06:40 PM
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People who have never heard of Alpha Xi or Theta Xi have asked me if the "Xi" is a real greek letter. Once I told them the alpha xi's made it up because we thought it sounded cool...and the chick actually believed me.
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Old 12-08-2007, 06:51 PM
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Ok so I guess I won't make this realistic and I'll post day 2 right now! lol
So for day 2 I went to Wrapping Paper, Snow, Santa, North Pole and Candy Canes.

Santa: I was paired with this super sweet girl at this house. She was amazing! I talked to her the entire time and felt like I had always known her. I was super comforable with her and she made me want to be a "Santa" too! They're slideshow/movie was super cute and creative. I really enjoyed this house! I wanted to be invited back sooo bad to meet some more people.

Wrapping Paper: The girls in this house all looked impecable (sp?). They seriously all looked perfect! Their entrance was slightly weird but nothing new. The girl I was paired with, coincidentally, had the same name as me. Go figure lol. But the whole time I was talking to her I felt as if she was looking around the room. I don't like when people don't look me in the eyes.. I just see it as being kind of rude. It was as if she wasn't interested in me at all. Then I talked to another girl who was more polite than the first but still I had this feeling that she didn't care what I had to say. If this house doesn't invite me back, I won't be too sad.

Candy Canes: I went into this house with preconcieved notions about the girls. I thought that I wouldn't get along with them at all. Well, I was totally wrong! I talked to 3 or 4 girls and loved all of them. They were all easy to talk to and super energetic and excited about their sorority. I wanted so badly to be invited back!

Snow: I had heard nothing about this house (positive or negative) before going into rush. I was paired with a girl who was a senior, and we got along great. She just asked me how my day was and if I was liking recruitment. Then I talked to 2 other girls who I really really liked! They were really sweet and actually seemed interested in what I had to say. They wanted to know all about me. This house was a nice change! I really want to be invited back to get to know more girls!

North Pole: Finally!! my last house for round one. I was totally exhausted..I don't really remember this house very well. Maybe I was just too tired to care anymore lol. In my booklet I wrote "I don't think I would mesh well with these girls." I'm not sure why I said that because I didn't put why...who knows. I knew some girls in this house, but none bothered to come and say hi. Maybe they just didn't realize I was there. Oh well..

Sooo After visiting the North Pole it was off to rank our houses.. and I had sort of an idea of which houses I liked and those that I didn't.. So I ranked as follows..( I don't remember the exact order of the first 7 so I'll just rank them all one, and then my bottom three are in order)

1. Santa
1. Candy Canes
1. Presents
1. Snow
1. Christmas Tree
1. Lights
1. Gingerbread
2. Wrapping Paper
3. North Pole
4. Stocking

-Paige
Oh ya and my legacy sorority is pretty well known. I have lots of friends in it across the country, and obviosuly in my family lol. I'm not sure if I should say which sorority it is or not...

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Old 12-08-2007, 07:13 PM
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Yay! I hoped you would post again. For some reason I am totally hooked on this one. I just knew the Candy Canes were going to be super cute - I hope you go back there tomorrow! Go Candy Canes!!
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Old 12-08-2007, 07:17 PM
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Oh ya and my legacy sorority is pretty well known. I have lots of friends in it across the country, and obviouly in my family lol. I'm not sure if I should say which sorority it is or not...
If you're not planning to say anything bad about them, then I see no reason not to divulge the name of your legacy. It'd be funny to see which "pretty well known" group was not known to the girl at the first party you attended!
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Old 12-08-2007, 08:50 PM
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Snow: I had heard nothing about this house (positive or negative) before going into rush. ...
Was you recruitment before school started or was it deferred?
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