I want to become closer friends, but I don't want them to ask me for some a$$

[AlphaFrog]

Originally Posted by DaemonSeid

Remeber,you as the lady, gets the final say so over who gets what....and F*ck feelings...if you are not liking them like that please be upfront...men are not mindreaders...we only go with what you all put out there. Don't put the signals out there if that isn't your intention and if they still don't have a clue....talk to them face to face. They will either respect your decision or not and that will show you what THIER intention is also.

Who said she was talking about guys?

[DaemonSeid]

Originally Posted by AlphaFrog

Who said she was talking about guys?

Either way, I don't know Dionysus enough to know what her orientation and it's none of my biz either.

(and my apologies for assuming Dionysus)

The main idea and scope of what I said still does not change:


Dionysus ....make your intentions known to both people male ....female, alien...whatever....being upfront about what you expect is key...if they can't respect you for that...that is on them. But not ever discussing intent gives others the idea that you are leading them on and you can save yourself and them a lot of time and frustration by simply being upfront and forthcoming.

If you run hot/cold...let them know to expect that and not much more until YOU say so.

No... means... no.

[SOPi_Jawbreaker]

I misread the title of this thread. I missed the "a". I was reading it as "I want to become closer friends, but I don't want them to ask me for some $$".


I read through the original post twice and could not, for the life of me, figure out where Dionysus was getting this idea that her new friends would ask her for money. Makes much more sense now that I see what the title really is.