Bad situation with Big.. what would you do?

[KSUViolet06]

I'm going to be honest. Your big sounds like a very immature person. Someone who can't accept gifts without being a brat is someone I don't think is ready to be put in the role of Big Sis.

Sometimes bigs and littles don't have the best relationships. In my chapter, girls whose bigs quit the sorority usually got adopted by another older sister. I don't know if that's something your chapter does, but it worked out well for us because girls whose bigs quit didn't feel "left out" when there were things like Revealing and family night.

[BabyPiNK_FL]

I have 5 littles, and I would NEVER treat any of them this way. I chose them becauase I loved them and would not have taken them otherwise and vice versa. It is an honor to be a big and each of my littles is very special to me in their own unique ways. I would give them the shirt off my back if they needed it and they know that. It really hurts me to see people treat their littles poorly. I treat my littles like my babies.

That being said, I highly suggest you A) ignore her for the rest of your time in the chapter (it seems as if she's already disowned you) and B) turn to another member of your chapter as a big (get adopted). You deserve better and the relationship is obviously done with. You know who that person is in your heart and they will open up their arms and their heart to you! Good luck!