beebadger, do call your daughters chapter. this is a once in a lifetime occasion and you should(and are entitled) to be there.
i would suggest contacting the chapters general advisor, not the girls, because they are sometimes hard to reach and sharing the details is not their top priority-it's not that they don't want us there, as much as i think that they live "in the moment" and don't seem to understand that we "adults" have obligations and need to plan ahead. your daughter probably will not know many details that would be helpful to you and may not feel comfortable asking questions-remember, this is all new to her and she most likely does not feel totally comfortable with her position in the sorority-my daughter did not this time last year, but after living in the house for almost a full semester, experiencing recruitment from the other side, and getting little sisters, she is more confident and better informed!
savor the memories-i hope you get to place your badge on her yourself!!
please come back and let us know how it went.
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