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Originally Posted by SigmaNuAlum
Something smells fishy here. If he's being sought by other fraternities, maybe he found one he would rather be a part of. I know when I was a new member/pledging, I would have accepted the money to pay the ticket (with an agreement to pay back, of course), and continued on with pledgeship. Isn't that what brotherhood is all about? You couldn't have kept me from it!
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That's what I was thinking. Without knowing the person or the exact words used, I would think if he REALLY wanted to be part of your org, he wouldn't sound like he is using the ticket as an excuse.
Why should he have to rerush if he's already been chosen? If he absolutely did not want to borrow your money he could have asked to be 'held over' till the following semester when he can afford the fees?
Maybe he didn't know he had that option though?