Parents against sororities....

[BabyPiNK_FL]

I didn't tell my parents until after initiation and they've never paid my dues, (even now and before during times when I'm not working have they paid my dues) so it can be done, but you better be sure that it's a realistic option for you!

[cutie_cat_4ever]

There are, in fact sororities that are geared towards southeast asian women. One of the biggest ones is Delta Phi Omega http://www.deltaphiomega.org/ . If you feel that cutural would be a big issue (as you mention in your posts) groups like this would probably suit you more. Maybe you can even try alpha Kappa Delta Phi http://www.akdphi.org/ , which is to date the largest asian sorority. Good luck!