Which sorority was your Rho Chi in?

[aephi alum]

Originally Posted by AOII Angel

When I was a Rho Chi later, most of my girls figured out that I was an AOII, but I had one sweet little Phi Mu legacy in my group. She was the only rushee I had that pledged Phi Mu, and she was so sure that I was a Phi Mu as well. She was really upset and cried when I told her that I was not one of her new sisters. I felt a little sorry for her, even though I knew she'd get over a hundred new, wonderful sisters in less than ten minutes!

Hee hee - I'm reminded of something that happened during my rho chi training. We were acting out various scenarios, learning how to counsel PNMs (e.g. a PNM who didn't get any invitations, a PNM who wanted to suicide, etc). One of the scenarios I got was "OMG, so I'm pretty sure you're an AEPhi and I'd love to be your sister! AEPhi is top of my list because of you! Can't you tell me whether you're an AEPhi or not?"

(Answer: You have a one in seventeen chance of being right, and anyway, a sorority is more than just one person - you should think about where you're most comfortable with most of the sisters, not just one.)

Funnily enough, most of my PNMs thought I was a Sigma Kappa. A bunch of them went Sigma Kappa, too, and none of them went AEPhi. *shrug*