For what are you proudest of your GLO? AND what should your GLO be proud of you for?

[SWTXBelle]

Goodness knows, our colors are signficant and not chosen because they are pretty!

[AOII Angel]

Originally Posted by SWTXBelle

Goodness knows, our colors are signficant and not chosen because they are pretty!

I know they have significance, but they have changed from the time your sorority was started. That is my point.

[Tom Earp]

Starting a local, affiliating with LXA and still there after 45 years and now with a new house.

[SWTXBelle]

quote - I am proud of AOII because our ritual was written solely by our founders with every symbol, color, letter etc having specific and special meaning elicited from our ritual. Also, it has not changed a single bit since it was written in 1897. Not many sororities can claim this having letters chosen randomly, having rituals written by outside sources and colors picked because they were someones favorites. Nothing wrong with that, but I'm proud of the job our founders did. - unquote

My letters were not chosen randomly, my ritual was not written by outside sources, and my colors were not picked because they were someone's favorite. But even if they were, that wouldn't change whether or not I should take pride in it. However it has evolved, I am sure every GLO's ritual, letters, colors, etc. now mean a great deal to the members. The how and why of a ritual is not nearly as important as the what.
You state that you are proud that nothing has changed, but I find it telling that don't take pride in the ritual itself - in the founder's beliefs or the meaning of the ritual. You state that you are proud that it hasn't changed. You mention nothing in your original posting about unchanging values, which have nothing to do with whether or not the ritual has changed. In fact, it may be that a ritual was changed to better reflect the values of the GLO.
Why should you be proud of your headquarters? How about because of the effort on the part of hundreds of women that it undoubtly took to build? I assure you, those who work there are very (and justly) proud of it.
No one has told you that you shouldn't take pride in whatever you wish. We just think it is not necessary to do so at the expense of any other GLO.
And pride is not related to superiority - from Webster's -" Pride - dignity and self-respect. satisfaction in something done or owned." That is what I meant when I said what are you proudest of - but I think you took it to mean the alternative meanings "an unduly high opinion of oneself" and "haughtiness. arrogance."
Please note - nothing about superiority! I love my sorority, but I also am proud to belong to the NPC. I started this thread to enable others to post what they took pride in, so that we could all learn and celebrate each other.
The LAST thing I wanted was petty one-upmanship. If that's what you need in order to feel good about your GLO, then okay. But don't get on your high horse when you are very politely told that you are coming across as snotty and self-satisfied. Instead of saying "Oh! That's not what I meant" you defend your original post. I can only assume that what we thought was an unintentional slighting of other GLOs was not a mistake.
Drolefille, I'm so impressed. Not only can you translate the incomprehensible, you can rewrite the snarky. Thanks!
I'm not interested in generating conflict, so I'd like this to drop so the thread can get back on track.

eta - AOII LB 93 - THAT is how it done. I think the fact that you take pride in living your ritual every day is great - something we should all emulate. And I wish Gamma Phi Beta would start a Life Loyal program.

[AOII Angel]

Originally Posted by SWTXBelle

quote - I am proud of AOII because our ritual was written solely by our founders with every symbol, color, letter etc having specific and special meaning elicited from our ritual. Also, it has not changed a single bit since it was written in 1897. Not many sororities can claim this having letters chosen randomly, having rituals written by outside sources and colors picked because they were someones favorites. Nothing wrong with that, but I'm proud of the job our founders did. - unquote

My letters were not chosen randomly, my ritual was not written by outside sources, and my colors were not picked because they were someone's favorite. But even if they were, that wouldn't change whether or not I should take pride in it. However it has evolved, I am sure every GLO's ritual, letters, colors, etc. now mean a great deal to the members. The how and why of a ritual is not nearly as important as the what.
You state that you are proud that nothing has changed, but I find it telling that don't take pride in the ritual itself - in the founder's beliefs or the meaning of the ritual. You state that you are proud that it hasn't changed. You mention nothing in your original posting about unchanging values, which have nothing to do with whether or not the ritual has changed. In fact, it may be that a ritual was changed to better reflect the values of the GLO.
Why should you be proud of your headquarters? How about because of the effort on the part of hundreds of women that it undoubtly took to build? I assure you, those who work there are very (and justly) proud of it.
No one has told you that you shouldn't take pride in whatever you wish. We just think it is not necessary to do so at the expense of any other GLO.
And pride is not related to superiority - from Webster's -" Pride - dignity and self-respect. satisfaction in something done or owned." That is what I meant when I said what are you proudest of - but I think you took it to mean the alternative meanings "an unduly high opinion of oneself" and "haughtiness. arrogance."
Please note - nothing about superiority! I love my sorority, but I also am proud to belong to the NPC. I started this thread to enable others to post what they took pride in, so that we could all learn and celebrate each other.
The LAST thing I wanted was petty one-upmanship. If that's what you need in order to feel good about your GLO, then okay. But don't get on your high horse when you are very politely told that you are coming across as snotty and self-satisfied. Instead of saying "Oh! That's not what I meant" you defend your original post. I can only assume that what we thought was an unintentional slighting of other GLOs was not a mistake.
Drolefille, I'm so impressed. Not only can you translate the incomprehensible, you can rewrite the snarky. Thanks!
I'm not interested in generating conflict, so I'd like this to drop so the thread can get back on track.

eta - AOII LB 93 - THAT is how it done. I think the fact that you take pride in living your ritual every day is great - something we should all emulate. And I wish Gamma Phi Beta would start a Life Loyal program.

This is what I mean about defensive. My post stated that some organizations state in their histories that they may have picked letters that they thought looked good together, changed colors for any reason, changed their name from an original non-greek name, the list can go on and on. In no way did I rip on any other group. Does Phi Mu care that they used to be known as the Philomathean (sorry if I spelled this wrong) Society...no, they actually are quite proud of it. Does Gamma Phi Beta feel less "proud" because they had the help of Dr. Brown? I don't think so...in fact, y'all seem to honor him as he deserves. Did I say that other groups don't have a meaningful ritual? Did I say that every group picked letters, colors, names, flowers, etc for no reason other than their inherent loveliness? No, I most certainly did not. I said that from its inception, AOII picked symbols to represent the ideals or "values" of our sorority that have not changed over time. Did I say there was a problem with changing things that may have needed updating? No, I simply pointed out that it is very hard for a 100 year old organization to stay unchanged for 100 years, very hard for a group of very young women to plan ahead without any help. I was merely suggesting that our founders did a good job. If you want to take offense to that, then you're reading something into my statements that simply aren't there. If other groups are embarrassed about the way they chose their emblems and rituals, then why do they publicize them? I am surprised that anyone would be offended by mentioning a difference from what other organizations are proud of in their own histories. If you still find offense at may statements, then ! Lastly, I am a greek life scholar...I enjoy reading the histories of the organizations. I find it fascinating that these women were so creative and insightful. If you think I was insulting these groups that I highly respect, you are indeed wrong. I suggest you actually go back and read some of the organizations' history pages, which I periodically do on a regular basis. I'm not going to tell an organization that needed to change it's name because someone else was using the name first that they are less than AOII because we didn't have to. I'm just proud that the same things my founders first put on paper are the same things AOIIs are doing today. And in no way is that haughty or self-satisfied.

[AOII Angel]

Please refer to my original post...I updated it to hopefully clarify my point. I do not mean to be haughty, and if you go back and read what I wrote without assuming that I have any intention of trashing any other group, then I think you'll see my point. I do see your points as well, but they are based on an incorrect assumption.

And SWTXBelle...I didn't say I was proudest about my ritual because it is implied. Everyone believes in their own ritual. By saying I was most proud of our beautiful ritual, I am sure the next second I'd be accused of saying that AOIIs ritual is superior to all others, which I obviously don't believe. For all I know, your ritual could be the most profound and wonderful ritual ever conceived by man (er...woman)...I'll never know because it's not mine.

[texas*princess]

I don't see why everyone is getting up in arms about AOII's post.

This coming from someone whose group was *GASP* not originally greek letters!!!

OH TEH HORROR!!!!!!!!

The greek letters in my groups name still stand for something very special.

I think some people need to stop taking the internet so seriously

[Buttonz]

I am proud of what the letters "SDT" mean.
I am proud of my sisters for having to put up with the "EAT" comment and being good natured about it *it's the only way to act*
I am proud of SDT being a Jewish organization who will accept members of every faith and not think twice about calling them a sister.

*I can go on and on*

As for me, although I went alumnae when I transfered instead of affiliating up here, I hope they are proud of all the time I spent trying to help AO before the decision was made to close the chapter up.

I try and remind myself every day how lucky I am that not only did I choose SDT but they chose me.

[AlexMack]

I'm proud that my sorority was founded in a New England college.

I hope they would be proud of me for reaching out to sisters I've never met through good times and bad.

I also like MellySK's answers

[sageofages]

I am proud my GLO was founded by 3 remarkably strong willed young women. I am also proud to know our first president was roommates and friends with ADPis first president. Truly making us "sisters" in the greek spirit in so many ways, other than just the location.

I am proud I was able to develop the very first Phi Mu national website, getting us on the web in 1994. (ok it was rudimentary, but the web was pretty new then too!)

[AOII Angel]

Originally Posted by sageofages

I am proud I was able to develop the very first Phi Mu national website, getting us on the web in 1994. (ok it was rudimentary, but the web was pretty new then too!)

That's impressive even if the web was rudimentary...it was harder to do at that point! They've got it easy now!!

[AlwaysSAI]

Originally Posted by Buttonz

I try and remind myself every day how lucky I am that not only did I choose SDT but they chose me.

I think about that all the time!!! (except with SAI & Phi Sig, of course)

[AGDLynn]

I'm proud of Alpha Gamma Delta for deciding at the very beginning of existence to strive to become a national organization on its own (not becoming a colony of an existing org.)

I hope that they are proud of me for trying to bring the campus NPC advisors closer together. I think that although the original group has changed, we will need each other more than ever in the next few years. (Also for being on the Greek housing steering committee.)

[SWTXBelle]

Well, there is an implied criticism of other GLOs in the way you worded your entry. Our colors changed, but I'm proud of the reason why - to recognize an individual who contributed to the growth and development of our sisterhood.
You might wish to edit out the bit about other sororities only because I understand why you are proud of your ritual, but it does, at first glance, seem to imply a superiority to those rituals which were changed, or had outside help in their development. You can be proud of the great job I assume your founders did with the ritual without seeming to criticize others. I know that was not your intent, and am offering up my opinion in the panhellenic spirit.
You can also be very proud of your beautiful headquarters in Tennessee - it's a gorgeous building, and everyone I met there was just as gracious and hospitable as can be.

[AOII Angel]

Originally Posted by SWTXBelle

Well, there is an implied criticism of other GLOs in the way you worded your entry. Our colors changed, but I'm proud of the reason why - to recognize an individual who contributed to the growth and development of our sisterhood.
You might wish to edit out the bit about other sororities only because I understand why you are proud of your ritual, but it does, at first glance, seem to imply a superiority to those rituals which were changed, or had outside help in their development. You can be proud of the great job I assume your founders did with the ritual without seeming to criticize others. I know that was not your intent, and am offering up my opinion in the panhellenic spirit.
You can also be very proud of your beautiful headquarters in Tennessee - it's a gorgeous building, and everyone I met there was just as gracious and hospitable as can be.

I'm not implying superiority at all. I don't know the significance of any of the items I mentioned for these other groups. I just know that AOII's founder were four young women who were able to write our ritual without any outside help, and it hasn't changed in 100 years. I don't think it is better than any other group, but you have to admit that for young women to write something of great importance to so many women that has not changed a single bit in 110 years is fairly remarkable. I can be very proud of that. I'm sure every other sorority is also understandably proud of their founders and their ritual for their own reasons. Do I think it's less important that Gamma Phi Beta changed their original colors to honor Dr. Brown who helped so much to start your sorority? No. I'm sure he is very respected in your sorority, but I think you'd have to admit that the significance of your prior colors must have been important to your founders as well.