High School girl in college world

Originally Posted by FSUZeta

my daughter's dorm roommate from last year is from auburn. she told us that a lot of her h.s. classmates went to fraternity parties while in h.s., and it sabotaged a few of the girls sorority aspirations.

the way she explained it, the college girls look at the h.s. girls like they are fraternity groupies; little girls trying to pretend they are big college girls. not a good thing.

I'll admit, I was one of those college girls who used to look down on the HS girls at the frat house. Some of them decided to rush sororities by the time they got to college, and they were blacklisted immediately. They were particularly interested in the locals because when I was there, AGD didn't really hold events with the local fraternity. I used to hang out there on the weekends because I was 19, they had free "beverages," and I was good friends with several of the brothers as my cousin is a member.

To the OP, regardless of how innocent you behave at the parties, that won't change how the girls will look at you. I know what it's like to be a 19 year old sorority girl who labels the HS girls "groupies". Don't be in such a rush to join the college world just because of high school drama because you know what? Drama follows you to college!

That said, we won't tell you to quit hanging out with your new guy friends at the house parties. However, are these guys worth jeopardizing your chances for rush next year? You'll make tons of new friends while you're in college. Don't just limit yourself to this one group.