Dilemma DA or Stay

Dilemma44 · #1 09-07-2007, 03:06 PM

Because, they told us to make paddles and get ready to not be able to sit down for a few days? (in a non joking sort of way)

REE1993 · #2 09-08-2007, 03:19 PM

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Originally Posted by Dilemma44

Because, they told us to make paddles and get ready to not be able to sit down for a few days? (in a non joking sort of way)

Maybe they WERE joking. Why not just keep going until they try to do this? Imagine disaffiliating only to find out that they were joking. They could really play up the "way to trust a brother" line.

No matter what you decide, good luck. I just would hate for you to leave simply on speculation.

ETA: I hope that the OP comes back and lets us know what happened.

adpiucf · #3 09-08-2007, 03:47 PM

If you feel like you've been threatened, I think you should talk to an initiated brother you trust.

And I'm sorry, fraternity men, but I can't understand how physically attacking someone or beating them instills respect and brotherhood. Are you guys just making up for not being spanked by your helicopter parents while growing up?

Dilemma44 · #4 09-08-2007, 05:34 PM

i've received this information from multiple sources, from brothers I trust. However, I'm sure they're going to tell me if I decide to DA. They will probably be like yeah "we were just joking" or something, but I dont know if thatll change my mind much, as the initiation problems only reflect the many problems that exist besides that in my mind.