UIUC Rush Story

[DeltaBetaBaby]

Originally Posted by littlemissvixen

So then where's Phi Mu on the list?

I think it was #15...something about interesting questions, but not good-looking.

I can't go back and check for certain, because you deleted your posts. Because you know I am correct.

[littlemissvixen]

Originally Posted by DeltaBetaBaby

I think it was #15...something about interesting questions, but not good-looking.

I can't go back and check for certain, because you deleted your posts. Because you know I am correct.

I know, because I'm starting to feel like a b****, and while they're not in perfect alphabetical order (seriously...?), I don't want to be too obvious. As for Phi Mu, I actually know several girls in the house who are very pretty, and while I didn't go back for First Invite (although I went back a house much further down on the list??) I think they eliminated me rather than vice versa. A little awkward during open house :-\

[dukemama]

Originally Posted by littlemissvixen

I don't want to be too obvious.

A little late for that, dontcha think?

Originally Posted by littlemissvixen

As for Phi Mu, I actually know several girls in the house who are very pretty, and while I didn't go back for First Invite (although I went back a house much further down on the list??) I think they eliminated me rather than vice versa. A little awkward during open house :-\

Methinks Phi Mu got it right.

[DeltaBetaBaby]

Originally Posted by littlemissvixen

I know, because I'm starting to feel like a b****,

Then my work here is done.

[texas*princess]

Originally Posted by littlemissvixen

Don't you think calling pretty girls "beauty queens" and "bitchy" is a little shallow?

I'm just saying I'd rather have average looking sisters that are great than to use their looks as a #1 factor.

Grow up.

And nice job on deleting your posts at least the first one will be in GC history forever since a few people quoted it

[littlemissvixen]

Originally Posted by texas*princess

I'm just saying I'd rather have average looking sisters that are great than to use their looks as a #1 factor.

Grow up.

And nice job on deleting your posts at least the first one will be in GC history forever since a few people quoted it

Average doesn't equal great or nice or anything else. Why are people so offended by this?? I've seen posts from people on here boasting about how their sorority sisters are "Barbie-like" and then posting (some airbrushed) pictures. While I'm not offended by that and think it's fun, seems like most of you would be.

[texas*princess]

Originally Posted by littlemissvixen

Average doesn't equal great or nice or anything else.

You're right it doesn't

Being a "gorgeous" chapter with proper fitting polos, perfect pedicures and real pearls doesn't = a great sister either.



Strangely enough, that is what you are making your judgements on.

[UGAalum94]

Originally Posted by littlemissvixen

It's not like I'm complaining that they weren't born skinny with big boobs and blonde hair or whatever... lol that would be a funny looking baby.

This part almost makes up for the shallowness. It would be a funny looking baby, indeed, and your comment made me snort.

But just try to walk the line between offensively shallow and just truthful a little more carefully because oftentimes, people don't end up getting the groups that they liked first and second round when the whole thing is over.

Give yourself some room to like a normal/ average group if that's who you end up getting a bid from.

[Benzgirl]

Originally Posted by littlemissvixen

Thanks. I love my first round sororities so much though! I will be much more open now that it is narrowed down to 6 and I can actually get to know everyone.

Did someone just take some lithium?

[sarasmile]

Originally Posted by littlemissvixen

that's something they chose to wear.

Well, its something that the rush chair chose for them to wear...the individual members may or may not have liked the outfit choice, but had to go along with it anyhow.

(Trust me...there's at least a handful of members in every chapter who don't care for the outfits picked out, for whatever reason. But, we all agree during rush to follow certain guidelines - our individuality is expressed later on. You'll see many threads in the recruitment forum about that sort of thing.)

[UGAalum94]

Originally Posted by DeltaBetaBaby

I think it was #15...something about interesting questions, but not good-looking.

I can't go back and check for certain, because you deleted your posts. Because you know I am correct.

I thought it was just me. I was wondering where the newer descriptions were.