Huge problem with transfering into a new chapter...HELP!!

[AlphaFrog]

Originally Posted by giggle528

yeah, no im just going to stay....yah ur right i would feel too guilty to re-rush. i was just getting soo turned off by my chapter back home.

so im guessing people have seen girls who have not been affliated with the chapters at their new school, where their letter any? wouldnt they be made fun off, because they are not really a ABC at the school?

Can you please make more of an attempt at typing? I can barely decipher your posts.

[violetpretty]

If you rerush, you WILL be found out. Every chapter gets a list of who is going through. ABC at your new school WILL find you (especially since you've talked to their president) and they WILL tell the advisor to the Panhellenic Association. Not only will you get kicked out of recruitment (not cut from all chapters, kicked out), you will stand no chance of reaffiliating with ABC. I sure as hell would not vote to accept a sister into my chapter who tried to rerush, especially one who KNEW she wasn't supposed to.

There are no exceptions to the National Panhellenic Conference policy that says that initiated members of one NPC are ineligible to join another NPC. Not even if your new school doesn't have ABC. Not even if ABC isn't a good fit for you at New U. Not even if you've deactivated your ABC membership. Not even if your membership has not been officially processed. You've witnessed initiation. You are an initiated member.

I'm not so sure why you are being so impatient. New U will have recruitment this week, but they'll still be able to accept you as a member regardless of their numbers. You're not competing for a spot in the chapter with the PNMs going through recruitment. Is that your concern?

[mystikchick]

Originally Posted by AlphaFrog

Can you please make more of an attempt at typing? I can barely decipher your posts.

Thank you. I was going to say that if someone hadn't already. You're in college, please attempt to type like a college student, that is to say, with proper grammar, punctuation and spelling. Abbreviations are fine for an IM conversation, but if people are trying to help you here, it becomes more difficult and they become less patient in doing so if they have to first figure out what you're trying to say in the first place. Thanks.