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Originally Posted by AlphaFrog
I hate to go all Dr. Phil on you, but it's very true that trust and insecurity have very little to do with the other person in the relationship - it's all about the person having the feelings. Unless you've ever given her a reason not to trust you, then if not about a fraternity, she's going to mistrust you about something else. Better to just do it and see how she reacts, than give up on being in a fraternity and find out down the line that she has issues.
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TOUCHE!! Also, I agree with PB!
If this is important to you then that is all that matters. She is not your wife! If she is up in arms about a fraternity then there is no telling what else would set her off. I wish like hell I would have let a boyfriend not want be to be an AKA. I would inquire as to why, but at the end of the day I would have told him to "Roll wit it or get rolled ova!"
LIVE YOUR OWN LIFE!! Don't put yourself in a position to say shoulda, woulda, coulda. Just imagine if you don't join b/c of her and you guys break up...you are going to feel like a giant ass. Man up!
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