Am I wrong if......

rhoyaltempest · #1 08-09-2007, 09:51 AM

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Originally Posted by PhDiva

All I have to do is insert *mother-in-law* and we're right there, soror.

But my MIL has been with us since April - love her but she gotta go home. She keeps praying for a grandchild - we're new newlyweds - but I can't let go *if you know what I mean* with my MIL down the hall. LOL

I know what you mean soror. And on another note...don't let anyone pressure you into having children so soon after the start of your marriage, unless it's something that you and your husband want to do. In-laws can be very persistent about this but don't let them get their way; it's not about them. From what I have seen, children change everything and not everyone's marriage is ready for them so soon. I've been married for 3 years now and my husband and I are just now talking about starting a family. Marriage is a lot of work and I really value these 3 years that my husband and I have spent just stabilizing it and growing together.

PhDiva · #2 08-10-2007, 04:29 PM

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Originally Posted by rhoyaltempest

I know what you mean soror. And on another note...don't let anyone pressure you into having children so soon after the start of your marriage, unless it's something that you and your husband want to do. In-laws can be very persistent about this but don't let them get their way; it's not about them. From what I have seen, children change everything and not everyone's marriage is ready for them so soon. I've been married for 3 years now and my husband and I are just now talking about starting a family. Marriage is a lot of work and I really value these 3 years that my husband and I have spent just stabilizing it and growing together.

Thanks soror but we're not receiving pressure so much as we both recognize that we aren't exactly spring chickens (early 40's and mid 30s) and we knew straight-away after getting married that starting a family soon was a priority. We lived together for almost 2 years before we got married and though marriage does change the nature of any relationship, I think we have a pretty good handle on how difficult it can be sometimes (Lord knows I do). I just want my space back so I can freely roam

so we can start our tribe.

1908Revelations · #3 08-10-2007, 04:47 PM

Am I wrong if my voicemail chooses to talk to my friends b/c they made NO plans for MY birthday?

Bastids!!

BlueReign · #4 08-12-2007, 02:49 AM

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Originally Posted by 1908Revelations

Am I wrong if my voicemail chooses to talk to my friends b/c they made NO plans for MY birthday?

Bastids!!

No you are not wrong girl. My "friends" have been talking to my voicemail practically all summer. And don't speak of my birthday cause nobody ever remembers anyway.

1908Revelations · #5 08-12-2007, 12:22 PM

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Originally Posted by BlueReign

No you are not wrong girl. My "friends" have been talking to my voicemail practically all summer. And don't speak of my birthday cause nobody ever remembers anyway.

Thanks! You should read the Open letter I wrote in the Delta forum. So you got a case of 'Sorryfrienditis' too

ziasha07 · #6 08-14-2007, 01:31 AM

Am I wrong if I go to the Alpha party... 30 minutes after singing (more than likely) in the Smokie Norful concert?

1browngirl · #7 08-14-2007, 04:23 PM

Was I wrong for telling my manager that I'm fed up with the BS that goes on with the recruiters I support?

MsRaidiance522 · #8 08-15-2007, 10:21 PM

Am I wrong because I hate being called a neo by other greek members