Do looks matter

[Imperial11]

Originally posted by Reds6
I don't think I'm that attracted to him physically.

If it ain't there, it ain't there. You would KNOW if you are physically attracted to him if you actually are. You're not!!! Whatever you do, don't try to "make yourself like him". Trust me, I done tried that and it didn't work!!!!!

But to answer your question, no, I don't think that relationships should be based totally on physical attraction, or mental attraction. You have to have a combination of both. For example, I recently met a guy who everybody (including me) thinks is very handsome. However, he doesn't turn me on. I find the thought of him touching me repulsive. Why? I don't know. I'm simply not attracted to him and it can't be his looks that are turning me off, because there is absolutely NOTHING wrong with the way he looks. Now that I think about it, he's kind of bossy and that doesn't help matters any. blah-blah-blah-blah-blah-blah (Sometimes I get a little wrapped up in my own problems )