Seriously, if you need a substance to have an enhanced or elevated mood to leave yourself uninhibited, then there is a lot about life you have to learn...
Have a College Passion Party.
Make aphrodesiacs: Chocolate, strawberries, figs, oysters, etc. Saffron noodles.
Have belly "dancers" both male and female. Men learn one way, and ladies learn another way.
The protect yourselves with Trojan or Lifestyles and the Durex Ring.
Use special incense or aromatherapy to heighten the senses...
Hayle, you could have a swing set, try on special equipment and take some stuff for a spin.
Practice safer sex...