I respect all women, I just have more respect for the conservative women. That's odd that a man would find it negative because you're intelligent. The fact that you dress nice, I think that's cool. A lot of men do like to see the goodies. I always say leave something to my imagination. I think you may be hanging out at the wrong places if you're running into guys that want to see you dress in a provocative way.
Outsider? LMAO. I know what you mean. When I was in undergrad, the guys on our campus loved it when a woman would dress fast. Most of them did dress fast on our campus so there really wasn't a variety to choose from. I used to get laughed at when I would tell them what kind of women I liked, so I'm with you on the outsider thing. Hey, don't change the way you are though. Be you. If the men you run into don't like it, then move on to the next until you find one that likes and respects you for you.
I don't know why you post like you are in some class all by yourself. There are a lot of men who feel just like you. You're not the only one. Most of the men who have expressed an interest in being in any committed relationship usually want the same things that you do. They don't want to see the woman that they want to come home to everyday walking around with her goodies exposed for the world to see.
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The fact that you dress nice, I think that's cool. A lot of men do like to see the goodies. I always say leave something to my imagination. I think you may be hanging out at the wrong places if you're running into guys that want to see you dress in a provocative way. 
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