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Originally Posted by SECdomination
I'm sorry that you're getting torn apart, but I agree with you 100%.
Nobody, and I mean NOBODY, likes the idea of hiding the less appealing members. However, it is sometimes necessary for the long term success of the chapter.
It's being caught between a rock and a hard place.
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Thank you. I know it hurts morale and such to ask a girl to be computer chair or on kitchen duty or something like that. You know what else hurts morale? Not making quota. By a lot. A lot of posters in this thread have never been in that situation.
Others have, and feel that it is better to close your chapter than hurt feelings. I disagree with that, and always will. What if HQ told you to get your chapter GPA up or be shut down? Would you be unwilling to put women on social probation or require study hours? It might hurt their feelings if you make them feel dumb, but I think few posters would hesitate here. What about women who can't pay their dues? If you try to put them on a payment plan and they still can't do it, do you let them remain a member forever without paying?