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Originally Posted by AlphaGamUGAAlum
Because partial armlessness isn't common enough for a group to worry about it becoming a group identity is what I actually meant.
I apologize if my joking about "freak show" was offensive in the earlier context. Another poster said something about a member being so unattractive as to turn off all the PNM who saw her, and I had a hard time imaging exactly what she meant.
I may be wrong, but I don't think the appearance related crap is ever really about any one member. One girl won't make a chapter "the fat chapter" anyway. But a chapter who is under pressure from nationals to get their numbers up is struggling with image problems generally most likely; and in an image driven recruitment, part of the way to address that might seem to be to make sisters who fit the stereotype less visible.
But again, I've already said that I wouldn't handle it by hiding members during rush.
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I didn't even notice your comment about freak show, I only said something because I hate even thinking about someone calling my sister names and she probably handles it with much more grace than I ever would (she's smart as well as gorgeous, in med school. Some people have all the luck) but I'm a bit of a momma bear when it comes to my sisters and my friends.
I equate telling an overweight girl to stay out of sight
because of her weight with someone telling my sister to stay out of sight because of her arm. I don't know if this order/"request" came from the national officer or came about because of pressure from the officer or whatever, it's still wrong.
I was ok with saying there could be other issues here but some other posters think that even if she has a great personality, etc. she shouldn't be surprised to be asked to stay away. How many times have we heard that recruitment is 24/7/365? Sisterhood is the same thing. You aren't a sister when it's convenient, you're a sister for life.
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