A question for the Pretty Boys from a Pretty Girl.....

[PrettyBoy]

Originally Posted by christiangirl

I'm sick of my four year drought. It's about time for some rain; I'm thirsty.

That's admirable. A lot of men don't get it, they have have to knock their head fifty 'leven times before they stop messing with the same women (and I've got some prime examples I wanna slap in the back of the head right now). I just have a problem with people generalizing women (and labeling me) because they once knew a trifling woman who I happened to have something in common with. Now, if a man keeps getting burned in relationships by women who were strippers, that's different. What shoes or accessories you wear are more a reflection of culture and fashion trends, but your profession says a lot more about you as a person. Not to knock the profession, but I've never heard of a tasteful, virtuous, well-mannered stripper.

I can't agree with the profession thing. Most women only like guys with a lot of money with high paying professions. There are a lot of men who are working and make decent money, not rich but decent money. Most women don't like guys like that. Personally I wouldn't go out with a woman who judged me based on my profession. My goal is to design autos, and designers make decent money but they're far from rich, but it's what I like. As far as the shoes, dress, and accessories go, I feel not only is the way a woman dresses a reflection on her, but also a reflection on me. I think in a relationship the woman and the man should compliment each other. How does it look when a woman dresses like a hoochie mama walking with a man who dresses in a conservative fashion, or a man who's pants are sagging or one who wears the ghetto, medium blue suits with the allegator skinned shoes to match and the same color blue top hat to go with it and those ghettofied shear blue socks with the lines in them to complete the hook up. Picture a guy like this walking with a woman who dresses in a consrvative fashion. To me they both look bad. The one that dresses conservative looks bad too, because she is with this dude. I'm not saying a woman has to wear name brand or anything, just a woman who isn't showey. As far as the stripper thing goes, I can see that. I wouldn't date a stripper, not because she's a stripper, but because I don't want other men getting an erection off of my woman, plus I don't feel it's a very respectful profession.

[christiangirl]

Originally Posted by PrettyBoy

I can't agree with the profession thing. Most women only like guys with a lot of money with high paying professions. There are a lot of men who are working and make decent money, not rich but decent money. Most women don't like guys like that.

I think that desire is portrayed so much in the media, that people think it's more true than it is. I truly don't believe the majority of women are golddiggers, it's just that the ones who are are the loudest and most seen of them all.

Originally Posted by PrettyBoy

As far as the shoes, dress, and accessories go, I feel not only is the way a woman dresses a reflection on her, but also a reflection on me. I think in a relationship the woman and the man should compliment each other. How does it look when a woman dresses like a hoochie mama walking with a man who dresses in a conservative fashion, or a man who's pants are sagging or one who wears the ghetto, medium blue suits with the allegator skinned shoes to match and the same color blue top hat to go with it and those ghettofied shear blue socks with the lines in them to complete the hook up. Picture a guy like this walking with a woman who dresses in a consrvative fashion. To me they both look bad. The one that dresses conservative looks bad too, because she is with this dude. I'm not saying a woman has to wear name brand or anything, just a woman who isn't showey.

Ummm.....that's not what I was talking about.

[PrettyBoy]

Originally Posted by christiangirl

I think that desire is portrayed so much in the media, that people think it's more true than it is. I truly don't believe the majority of women are golddiggers, it's just that the ones who are are the loudest and most seen of them all.




Ummm.....that's not what I was talking about.

What did you mean then?

[christiangirl]

I wasn't really talking about a person's style reflecting on anyone else. I just meant that people are more likely to wear something they don't like to follow a fashion trend, thus accessories and clothing don't always reflect the real person. However, even though people will do work they don't enjoy if it helps them get by, an actual career choice says a lot about interests, etc. Moreso than clothing, which is a reflection on the person, but moreso of culture, fashion, and whatever's popular.

I think you got that point, but you went off on a tangent and I got confused.

[PrettyBoy]

Originally Posted by christiangirl

I wasn't really talking about a person's style reflecting on anyone else. I just meant that people are more likely to wear something they don't like to follow a fashion trend, thus accessories and clothing don't always reflect the real person. However, even though people will do work they don't enjoy if it helps them get by, an actual career choice says a lot about interests, etc. Moreso than clothing, which is a reflection on the person, but moreso of culture, fashion, and whatever's popular.

I think you got that point, but you went off on a tangent and I got confused.

Oh. See people that try to follow a fashion trend, that's not good either. The saggy pants thing is a fashion trend and I wouldn't be caught in my grave wearing that garbage.

[christiangirl]

Originally Posted by PrettyBoy

Oh. See people that try to follow a fashion trend, that's not good either. The saggy pants thing is a fashion trend and I wouldn't be caught in my grave wearing that garbage.

What, you never wore your clothes backward like Kriss-Kross?

[PrettyBoy]

Originally Posted by christiangirl

What, you never wore your clothes backward like Kriss-Kross?

LOL. Hell no. I hated that Kris Kross, "Cross Colors" crap.

[KAPPAtivating]

Originally Posted by christiangirl

What, you never wore your clothes backward like Kriss-Kross?

OKAY...you drug it out of me...I did it once in the 9th grade! It was a MOVEMENT!