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Originally Posted by Alphagamuga
My point is that you care much more deeply about the person related to you than you do the chapter already, which is why if I had a legacy I would want her to do what she wanted to do. It'd be fun if she joined my group, but not at the expense of her doing what she wanted to do.
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Not everyone feels that same way. I got more than a couple of phone calls (and I was simply the Alumnae Chapter President, I had nothing to do with recruitment at either of our local chapters) from women who were upset that a person they wrote a rec for (I think at least one was not even a legacy) didn't get into Gamma Phi.
And I know plenty of stories of alumnae who cut off contact.
It's not the business of the chapter to tell the family of a PNM that she was cut. What if the PNM is GLAD she was cut?
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