Soul-Mates - Page 3

MokaBeautie21 · #31 06-09-2007, 10:33 PM

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Originally Posted by RHOyal-Silence

i was just listening to bilal's soul sista when i started thinking....

do you all believe that there is a person out there that is your soul mate?

do you have someone in your life that you believe that you are meant to be with even though circumstances right now have you apart from one another?

Yea i do believe there is someone out there that is my soul mate. I think everyone has a match and even the ups and downs are part of what brings them together.

I do have someone in my life that i believe is my soul mate but due to the distance between us we are just friends But i now realize that being friends can't work because i obviously have deeper feelings than that. S even though i believe he's the one....I think i pushed him away because of what other people told me to do....

"I think if you got something good don't ruin it Nature spoils things naturally...So either you'll get ripe or rotten..only time will tell" - Supreme

DSTCHAOS · #32 06-09-2007, 10:45 PM

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Originally Posted by ladygreek

I found my soul mate 8 months ago. We live 1,000 miles apart, but we were high school sweethearts. We reunited at our class reunion and hadn't seen each other in 20 years. We communicate by phone and email. He makes my soul feel good and I his. It's not about sex, it's about knowing how to uplift each other.

Otherwise he lives his life and I live mine, but we are joined by our mutual like, love and respect for each other. That's all we need from each other.

Look at you being all grown and stuff.

ladygreek · #33 06-10-2007, 12:18 AM

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Originally Posted by DSTCHAOS

Look at you being all grown and stuff.

Just celebrated our "one year anniversary." He remembered, I didn't. LOL

DSTCHAOS · #34 06-11-2007, 08:03 AM

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Originally Posted by ladygreek

Just celebrated our "one year anniversary." He remembered, I didn't. LOL

LOL. You still celebrated and that's what counts.

Just don't forget the 2 year.

OneTimeSBX · #35 06-11-2007, 09:43 AM

i believe there is more than one soulmate per person. i know a man whose mother was married for 22 years to his mother, and remarried and was with the 2nd husband for 38 years. now, i know that time married does not equal soul mates, but her children (all 8 of them) truly felt as though this man embodied their father 100%, and were glad someone could fill that space in her life.

i also believe that soulmate doesnt always equal husband/wife. i feel as though some people i have met over the years will always be in my life and i immediately felt a connection when i met them. i have a coworker i have worked with for a year, and it feels like we are sisters on some higher level. we look alike, love the same things, finish each others sentences...its very weird, but i almost feel the same connection with her as i do my blood sisters...

lovehaiku84 · #36 06-11-2007, 10:08 AM

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Originally Posted by OneTimeSBX

i believe there is more than one soulmate per person. i know a man whose mother was married for 22 years to his mother, and remarried and was with the 2nd husband for 38 years. now, i know that time married does not equal soul mates, but her children (all 8 of them) truly felt as though this man embodied their father 100%, and were glad someone could fill that space in her life.

i also believe that soulmate doesnt always equal husband/wife. i feel as though some people i have met over the years will always be in my life and i immediately felt a connection when i met them. i have a coworker i have worked with for a year, and it feels like we are sisters on some higher level. we look alike, love the same things, finish each others sentences...its very weird, but i almost feel the same connection with her as i do my blood sisters...

I pretty much agree with you. I don't think that the soulmate has to be the person that you marry/carry on a lifelong intimate love relationship with. I feel that a soulmate can be a child/friend/relative/life partner, etc. Additionally I feel that a person can have more than one soulmate. Right now I am 23 and I am in a relationship with a man that I feel I could spend my life with. Do I feel like he's my soulmate? I don't know about that just yet, but I do believe that God brought us together and that he has a major purpose in my life.

IncontRHOllable · #37 06-12-2007, 12:58 PM

I guess I really don't believe in a soul mate as being one person that you marry because by definition a soul mate is just someone that you have a strong affinity to. As was previously stated and I agree with, a soul mate could be my best friend of whom I have known since I was in grade school. We have been through thick and thin and she will always be my best friend and soul mate.

Having a soul mate and meeting the love of your life are different concepts in my opinion.

Little32 · #38 06-13-2007, 07:23 PM

^^But it is nice if there is some overlap there too.