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06-13-2007, 02:03 AM
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Originally Posted by LilBlueEyes
and exactly one week later, after no call yet, i come home to find some ims from him saying "hey you there?...no response, so guess not...but, call me sometime! good night"
why in the friggen world would he tell me to call him, after he promised to call me and failed to do so?
i know his ex of over two years did a number on him and took him on a rollercoaster ride of a relationship...but it's not that hard to pick up a phone...
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Do you still not get it?
If he liked you, he'd call you. He'd pursue you. Look behind you...is there anyone chasing you?
I probably should not be giving you anymore advice since you seem to be ignoring everything that everyone on here has told you, but it just drives me nuts to see women act this way. Stop making up excuses for why the guy *might* not be calling you, taking you out, etc. A guy that likes you in a serious way will do more than leave you lame IMs. I mean, doesn't it make you pissed that he doesn't even think you're worth a phone call? Cut this guy off!
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06-13-2007, 03:45 AM
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alot of people just say call me later or i'll call you as a passing phrase, or a good bye phrase. a good amount of time if you ask someone why they didnt call they'll respond with "was i supposed to call you?" its like when you tell people see you later, it doesnt mean they're going to make a commitment to literally see you later. i allways say i'll call you later to people then never do. is it bc im an a-hole...most likely, but most of the time its bc i dont realize i've said it.
oh yeah, he obviously took the time to IM you meaning he doesnt not like you.
i think you're taking little things and blowing them out of proportion. also, i like how you're finding sage advice from strangers on a greek message board bc you thought all fraternity men think alike. i dunno, call me mean but i think you're a big cup of crazy.
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06-13-2007, 11:03 AM
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Originally Posted by PeppyGPhiB
Do you still not get it?
If he liked you, he'd call you. He'd pursue you. Look behind you...is there anyone chasing you?
I probably should not be giving you anymore advice since you seem to be ignoring everything that everyone on here has told you, but it just drives me nuts to see women act this way. Stop making up excuses for why the guy *might* not be calling you, taking you out, etc. A guy that likes you in a serious way will do more than leave you lame IMs. I mean, doesn't it make you pissed that he doesn't even think you're worth a phone call? Cut this guy off!
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I AGREE 100%!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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06-13-2007, 12:43 PM
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If a guy is into you, he's calling you, taking you out/going out with you, etc.
He's not into you. If you're not officially BF/GF, then consider yourself single.
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06-13-2007, 12:48 PM
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sorry to crash, but had to toss in the other side of this coin.
dating sorority girls - Just know... THEY all talk. If you are dating a girl from 2 different sororities, they will eventually talk, and find out.... (wow that was a terrible night). 
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06-14-2007, 07:40 PM
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Originally Posted by banditone
sorry to crash, but had to toss in the other side of this coin.
dating sorority girls - Just know... THEY all talk. If you are dating a girl from 2 different sororities, they will eventually talk, and find out.... (wow that was a terrible night). |
well maybe you shouldn't date two women at the same time without making it clear to both that it's not exclusive 
as for the op, let me say what everyone else has been saying slightly more nicely...YOU'RE A PIECE OF ASS TO HIM. he knows exactly what he has to do to keep you on the string and you're falling for it. he will continue to do just enough until you force him to up his game, and then he'll either up it until it gets too hard, or just call it quits right then and there (at least, until he's feeling lonely again). however, i've been there before soi know that you will not take mine nor anyone else's advice about this until it's too late. please just think hard about this: if one of your friends told you she was in the same situation, what would you say to her? would you respect her actions?
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06-14-2007, 08:43 PM
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I doubt you're really going to listen to this, but...
STOP CALLING HIM.
If he really is into, which I doubt it, then he needs to act like it. He ain't acting like it.
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06-14-2007, 09:08 PM
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Hehe, a "My Best Friend's Wedding" quote. 
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Originally Posted by PeppyGPhiB
If he liked you, he'd call you. He'd pursue you. Look behind you...is there anyone chasing you?
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