dating a frat boy

[LilBlueEyes]

but we never broke up....he just told one of my friends i was clingy...and i was like w/e if he likes me he'll call me and he did

[honeychile]

"Clingy"? OUCH!!!!

Originally Posted by Kevin

You're in college. Plenty of fish in the sea.

If a guy tells you that you're hurting his grades as a pretext for dumping you, this is a subtle way of him telling you that he's not that into you. If he was really into you, c'mon... grades??? In college, we have a lot of time on our hands. If he wanted to make time for you, he could. He doesn't. Take the hint.

Can't believe I'm actually saying this, but Kevin's right.

Originally Posted by LilBlueEyes

but we never broke up....he just told one of my friends i was clingy...and i was like w/e if he likes me he'll call me and he did

Sweetheart, just because he called you doesn't mean anything.

Do you really want to be with someone who thinks that way of you? I know I don't know you and the full story, but what I'm reading into this is that he's not into this as much as you are.

There's nothing confusing here. Cut bait and move on. You're young and this is so not worth it.

[LilBlueEyes]

no the clingy was before we started seeing each other a lot.....and after that most of the time he was the one who called to hang out....like we had 7 weeks of seeing each other all the time, calling, talking online, etc and then i met his parents when he called me to come over and meet them, at the end of the semester

[PeppyGPhiB]

Even though you're a freshman, there is a difference between hanging out and dating.

I'm going to be blunt. He likes you...but not enough. You'll "do"...for now, until he meets someone else he likes more. For now, he enjoys hanging out with you and maybe gettin' a little, if that's happening (I have no idea, just sayin'). Who knows why he invited you over to meet his parents - that's an example of something confusing that guys sometimes do that make no sense.

Kevin is right. Grades, especially as a freshman, is a lame, fake excuse to break up with someone...although honestly it doesn't seem like you're really "together" and you have to be together before you can break up. Don't overthink this and make excuses for him. You deserve more than a guy that calls you "clingy" at this stage...if he thinks you're clingy now, what would he think later on? Do yourself a favor and forget this guy unless/until he makes a real effort to pursue you.