What is the nicest thing a woman/man has ever done for you?

[OneTimeSBX]

i worked at UPS one killer Christmas, should have gotten off around 7, didnt make it home until 1130...felt like hell. i had basically pulled a non-stop 16 hour day and hadnt eaten all day, let alone take a bathroom break. when i got home, dinner was cooked, my daughter was asleep, my favorite drink was made. after that, my fiance took me into the bathroom where he had run my favorite bubble bath and lit candles all around. he kept me supplied with wine and hot water, while i complained about how much Christmas sucked...by far one of the nicest things ever done for me!

[PrettyBoy]

I got a really nice fraternity ring and a card in the mail, and it wasn't my birthday or anything. I thought that was really nice.

[delph998]

I had never really done anything special for my birthdays, so I called my boy and told him that he had to do something special for me on my b-day.

On that day he picked me up that evening and told me that we were going to have a great time. And we did. He got us private salsa dance lessons, then we went to this restaurant where they had salsa night and danced the night away. It was very the subtle gesture -- and it was the nicest thing a guy had ever done for me.

[KAPPAtivating]

Originally Posted by delph998

I had never really done anything special for my birthdays, so I called my boy and told him that he had to do something special for me on my b-day.

On that day he picked me up that evening and told me that we were going to have a great time. And we did. He got us private salsa dance lessons, then we went to this restaurant where they had salsa night and danced the night away. It was very the subtle gesture -- and it was the nicest thing a guy had ever done for me.

Never done that before...*taking notes*

[pinkies up]

I think the nicest thing a guy has ever done for me would be what my husband when he asked me to marry him.

We are like the black Brady Bunch. He had a son and I had a son and daughter before we married. I was really overprotective of my children and weary of beginning relationships because I didn't want my children's hearts to be broken. Anyway, while we were dating, we'd do these big family picnic dates. We had done these on several occassions, but on this day it was different. After we had all swung on the swings, slid down the slide, and run through the water fountain, he took the kids to the picnic area. Suspicious, I began to walk over and he came with four black boxes. He gave my children their rings and asked them could he be their step-father. By this time, my heart stopped. He then asked his son if I could be his step-mother. By this time, huge tears came streaming down my face when he got on his knee and asked me to be his wife. Yep, definately the sweetest thing.

[OOhsoflyDELTA#9]

Originally Posted by pinkies up

I think the nicest thing a guy has ever done for me would be what my husband when he asked me to marry him.

We are like the black Brady Bunch. He had a son and I had a son and daughter before we married. I was really overprotective of my children and weary of beginning relationships because I didn't want my children's hearts to be broken. Anyway, while we were dating, we'd do these big family picnic dates. We had done these on several occassions, but on this day it was different. After we had all swung on the swings, slid down the slide, and run through the water fountain, he took the kids to the picnic area. Suspicious, I began to walk over and he came with four black boxes. He gave my children their rings and asked them could he be their step-father. By this time, my heart stopped. He then asked his son if I could be his step-mother. By this time, huge tears came streaming down my face when he got on his knee and asked me to be his wife. Yep, definately the sweetest thing.

Awwwwah Sistergreek...that is sooooo sweet!!! You picked well!!!

[pinkies up]

Originally Posted by OOhsoflyDELTA#9

Awwwwah Sistergreek...that is sooooo sweet!!! You picked well!!!

Thank you Sistergreek! (I think he picked well too )

Originally Posted by mmbrown23

Oh my, sistergreek! Just beautiful. That was soooo sweet! Lawd, maybe - just maybe there is hope for me

Originally Posted by 1908Revelations

I KNOW!!! I still feel like my outlook is bleek, but I have no crystal ball.

Originally Posted by Infamous12

*as the tears well up in my eyes* BEAUTIFUL! BEAUTIFUL!

Originally Posted by mulattogyrl

Awwwwww......this just made me cry!!

Thank you! We'll be celebrating our 3rd year together in August. I tell you, blended families can and do work! For those who are still looking for their prince charmings, there is hope, but focus on yourself first. Love yourself, and the rest will come.

[mulattogyrl]

Originally Posted by pinkies up

I think the nicest thing a guy has ever done for me would be what my husband when he asked me to marry him.

We are like the black Brady Bunch. He had a son and I had a son and daughter before we married. I was really overprotective of my children and weary of beginning relationships because I didn't want my children's hearts to be broken. Anyway, while we were dating, we'd do these big family picnic dates. We had done these on several occassions, but on this day it was different. After we had all swung on the swings, slid down the slide, and run through the water fountain, he took the kids to the picnic area. Suspicious, I began to walk over and he came with four black boxes. He gave my children their rings and asked them could he be their step-father. By this time, my heart stopped. He then asked his son if I could be his step-mother. By this time, huge tears came streaming down my face when he got on his knee and asked me to be his wife. Yep, definately the sweetest thing.

Awwwwww......this just made me cry!!

This probably isn't the nicest, but it's the first one that comes to mind: A guy bought me books for my birthday. I know, it sounds so simple, but books mean so much to me, and the fact that he understood and respected that was very touching.

I also remember another incident with a former co-worker. I had just become a Delta. She was from Sweden and knew nothing about fraternities, sororities, BLGOs, or anything of the sort. The only thing she did remember is that my sorority collected elephants. Well, I came to work one day and she gave me a small silver elephant charm that belonged to her grandmother. I was so touched I cried right in front of customers, lol.

[Infamous12]

Originally Posted by pinkies up

I think the nicest thing a guy has ever done for me would be what my husband when he asked me to marry him.

We are like the black Brady Bunch. He had a son and I had a son and daughter before we married. I was really overprotective of my children and weary of beginning relationships because I didn't want my children's hearts to be broken. Anyway, while we were dating, we'd do these big family picnic dates. We had done these on several occassions, but on this day it was different. After we had all swung on the swings, slid down the slide, and run through the water fountain, he took the kids to the picnic area. Suspicious, I began to walk over and he came with four black boxes. He gave my children their rings and asked them could he be their step-father. By this time, my heart stopped. He then asked his son if I could be his step-mother. By this time, huge tears came streaming down my face when he got on his knee and asked me to be his wife. Yep, definately the sweetest thing.

*as the tears well up in my eyes* BEAUTIFUL! BEAUTIFUL!

[mmbrown23]

Originally Posted by pinkies up

I think the nicest thing a guy has ever done for me would be what my husband when he asked me to marry him.

We are like the black Brady Bunch. He had a son and I had a son and daughter before we married. I was really overprotective of my children and weary of beginning relationships because I didn't want my children's hearts to be broken. Anyway, while we were dating, we'd do these big family picnic dates. We had done these on several occassions, but on this day it was different. After we had all swung on the swings, slid down the slide, and run through the water fountain, he took the kids to the picnic area. Suspicious, I began to walk over and he came with four black boxes. He gave my children their rings and asked them could he be their step-father. By this time, my heart stopped. He then asked his son if I could be his step-mother. By this time, huge tears came streaming down my face when he got on his knee and asked me to be his wife. Yep, definately the sweetest thing.

Oh my, sistergreek! Just beautiful. That was soooo sweet! Lawd, maybe - just maybe there is hope for me!

[1908Revelations]

Originally Posted by mmbrown23

Oh my, sistergreek! Just beautiful. That was soooo sweet! Lawd, maybe - just maybe there is hope for me!

I KNOW!!! I still feel like my outlook is bleek, but I have no crystal ball.