Montreal Woman Sues Gay Bar For Kicking Her Out

[CutiePie2000]

Originally Posted by Taualumna

My question is this: Does anyone find it weird that she was at a place like that with her DAD??

Perhaps her father is gay. It's not exactly unheard of for gay men to marry women, have families, and then "come out" later in life.

Originally Posted by Taualumna

Most people I know wouldn't go to THAT kind of patio/bar with their PARENTS. I mean, would YOU go to that kind of bar with your parents? I guess things are different in Quebec because I only places I drink with my parents are at home and normal restaurants.

"Normal" restaurants, huh? That's a rather judgemental comment to make.

[Taualumna]

Originally Posted by CutiePie2000

Perhaps her father is gay. It's not exactly unheard of for gay men to marry women, have families, and then "come out" later in life.

Setting Dad up with someone, helping Dad pick up is still kind of weird, IMHO, gay or straight.

"Normal" restaurants, huh? That's a rather judgemental comment to make.

Well, it isn't normal to go to places that show porn with the parents, is it? At least not around here.

[RACooper]

Originally Posted by Taualumna

Well, it isn't normal to go to places that show porn with the parents, is it? At least not around here.

You should see some of the trendier openings around Yorkville, College, or the Entertainment/Financial District - I've been to more than a few that project or show 'softcore' porn to "accent the sensuality of the food and meal" (quoting a program). As for clubs...

[macallan25]

What a wonderful family outing, I can see it now...........

"Hey son guess what??!! Screw playing golf today...it's too nice out not to enjoy the day sipping Appletinis and watching porn at the homo bar with my gay buddy and his partner."

"But Dad, where's mom?"

"Oh she's shopping with my gay buddy's ex-wife. She'll be back later." "What's the problem son??"

- son starts crying -

[RACooper]

Actually we went after golf.... and the place (just like anywhere gay, straight, or whatever) wasn't showing porn since it wasn't after 9pm.

Besides it was a business visit of sorts, my Dad was looking into some accounting issues Rick was having settling his estate (he was dying of brain cancer at the time) and as a business meeting he wanted to meet close to Rick's place and somewhere with a good Scotch selection - and back in the day the place had one of the better selections of Scotch and cigars (it catered to an older more 'powerful' crowd of businessmen and poltical types).

I got to try some truely amazing scotches and had an actually very interesting converstation with Rick's partner - the guy was an avid Civil War buff and collector.

So no there was no crying (well maybe some at trying the Benromach Vintage 1968), just a friendly gathering on the patio people watching (and mocking) while my Dad went through the papers and caught-up - not all of us are closeminded bigots or homophobes like you

[macallan25]

Originally Posted by RACooper

Actually we went after golf.... and the place (just like anywhere gay, straight, or whatever) wasn't showing porn since it wasn't after 9pm.

Besides it was a business visit of sorts, my Dad was looking into some accounting issues Rick was having settling his estate (he was dying of brain cancer at the time) and as a business meeting he wanted to meet close to Rick's place and somewhere with a good Scotch selection - and back in the day the place had one of the better selections of Scotch and cigars (it catered to an older more 'powerful' crowd of businessmen and poltical types).

I got to try some truely amazing scotches and had an actually very interesting converstation with Rick's partner - the guy was an avid Civil War buff and collector.

So no there was no crying (well maybe some at trying the Benromach Vintage 1968), just a friendly gathering on the patio people watching (and mocking) while my Dad went through the papers and caught-up - not all of us are closeminded bigots or homophobes like you

If I'm closeminded for thinking it is unacceptable and pretty much disgusting to put your children in that kind of situation..........then so be it.

As for being bigoted and homophobic..........I am neither intolerant towards nor am I afraid of gay people. I do though, think it is completely immoral, unnatural, and something that I frown upon when considering my religion.

My comments were more about the fact that I find it simply ridiculous that parents would take their child to a gay bar and find it perfectly normal and acceptable.

[CutiePie2000]

Originally Posted by macallan25

My comments were more about the fact that I find it simply ridiculous that parents would take their child to a gay bar and find it perfectly normal and acceptable.

macallan25, no one is saying that this place would be suitable for a "child" (i.e. someone aged 0-17), but the daughter in this case is 20 years old. She and her father are both adults and could have chosen to go somewhere else if the supposed TV displays offended them (and as RACooper pointed out earlier in the thread, there would have been no porn airing anyway, as it was the late-afternoon. I suspect that the journalist threw the detail in, about pornography being shown on TV screens, to contribute to the sensationalism of the story). It would appear that they chose to stay, so I guess they weren't offended by the supposed pornography on the TVs (and chances are, there was NO PORN BEING SHOWN AT THAT TIME OF DAY as it was the daytime)...but hey, based on their names and the fact that this happened in Montreal, they are "French" after all (French-Canadian, that is)....LOL

[Taualumna]

Originally Posted by RACooper

You should see some of the trendier openings around Yorkville, College, or the Entertainment/Financial District - I've been to more than a few that project or show 'softcore' porn to "accent the sensuality of the food and meal" (quoting a program). As for clubs...

I guess I live in the wrong town. Being an old fashioned girl sounds like a big no-no in this town (and maybe even this country, sad to say). Almost frowned upon.

[UGAalum94]

Taualumna,

I will back you up that going to a gay bar with your dad is not typical.

I will further back you up that restaurants that show porn are not "normal" as the word is commonly understood.

Now, I've got no problem with anyone going to gay bars with their dads or having restaurants that show porn but the people giving the "what's the big deal?" kind of response seem to be working hard to pull a "hipper than thou" attitude. Although I can conceive of an occasion like RACooper describes, I suspect that it's a pretty small segment of the population that would feel so entirely comfortable with that situation as to actually seek it out. Most of us don't seek sexual charged environments for outings with our parents. Nope, we don't.

I hope the women from the article sues. She's been discriminated against based on her sex, and it seems pretty clear cut.

[CutiePie2000]

Originally Posted by Alphagamuga

I hope the women from the article sues. She's been discriminated against based on her sex, and it seems pretty clear cut.

But how is that different from say, "Ladies Only" gyms? If gay guys want to be somewhere "sans" the ladies, why not let them be?

Originally Posted by Taualumna

Being an old fashioned girl sounds like a big no-no in this town (and maybe even this country, sad to say). .

Please.... do some travelling around the world so that you will truly come to know and appreciate the rights and freedoms that you enjoy living in the country that you do: being permitted to drive, being permitted to vote, being permitted to be in the company of men who are not your brother, father or husband, being able to "choose" who you will marry, being recognized as a "person" rather than the property of your father and husband... I could go on and on, but suffice it to say, as someone who has been to the Middle East, Africa and Asia, the rest of the world is not like North America.

[Taualumna]

Originally Posted by CutiePie2000

But how is that different from say, "Ladies Only" gyms? If gay guys want to be somewhere "sans" the ladies, why not let them be?

Ladies only gyms require membership. This was a walk in type of place.

Please.... do some travelling around the world so that you will truly come to know and appreciate the rights and freedoms that you enjoy living in the country that you do: being permitted to drive, being permitted to vote, being permitted to be in the company of men who are not your brother, father or husband, being able to "choose" who you will marry, being recognized as a "person" rather than the property of your father and husband... I could go on and on, but suffice it to say, as someone who has been to the Middle East, Africa and Asia, the rest of the world is not like North America.

Right, but in THIS part of the world, someone who wants to be old fashioned is criticized while someone who is "liberal" is applauded. I post at TWOP, and while I don't necessarily agree with EVERYTHING Elisabeth H (can't spell her last name) from The View has to say, I also don't like how she is attacked for her views.