Are You Too Good For These Men?

[delph998]

Originally Posted by DSTCHAOS

I don't understand why people see an issue with men being 30+ and never being married.

Soror, it's not an issue. It's a blessing actually, BUT with how rampid HIV/AIDS is, I can't help but question (not judge) if this guy could possibly be a down-low brotha. Is it wrong, I don't know. But it's a harsh reality for me. Soror Sheryl Lee Ralph just came and spoke on this very topic and that made it even more real to me. I guess I'm saying that I am very afraid. And truthfully, there are divorced men with children that are down low brothas, so again it's just a fear.

Ladygreek -- I agree with your comment regarding age. Like I said, my sister and I are seven years a part and you can't tell. Further 40's are the new 30's and so on.

[btb87]

Originally Posted by delph998

Further 40's are the new 30's and so on.

Ooooh, that's encouraging!!

[DSTCHAOS]

Originally Posted by delph998

I guess I'm saying that I am very afraid.

I'm sorry you're in fear, Soror, and I hope you are able to work through that.