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Originally Posted by KSUViolet06
Myth #4: You will be happy if you join a sorority that everyone considers the most popular on campus.
I can't tell you how many girls I know who drop out of sororities that are supposedly the "popular ones" because they aren't happy. Joining a sorority because "it's the one everyone liked during rush" is not smart. You're supposed to make choices based on what you like, not everyone else. If you go back to groups or cut groups based on what other girls like, you could find yourself in a sorority that you don't really like.
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Maybe these girls would have been happier if they'd been told ahead of time that if you don't wear the right shoes or carry the proper LV purse then you'll be ostracized, that way they could save up all their money for the right clothes along with the atrociously high dues! These girls have this idea that joining the rich girl group will suddenly make them happy. My opinion on these top tier, old south groups is that they are filled with MRS. seeking, junior leaguers who are more concerned about their future husbands' careers than their own. This may actually be why girls quit...they realized that they want more in life than that! I'd take a bottom tier group filled with ambitious women who want to enrich their own minds and define themselves by their own works not their husbands over a top tier group any day.